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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Inkambo enhle yobukhrest iqhathaniswa nengcindezi yezocansi
Ngakube ukuziphatha kahle ngokwezocansi ngokobuKhrestu akunampilo futhi akukho oemvelweni? Ngingowesifazane ozama ukuphila impilo emsulwa ,kodwa owesilisa engingena naye othandweni uhlala njalo engicindezela.Uthi umuzwa wami ngobumsulwa kwezocansi kungumuzwa nje ongenampilo wokwesaba –ngokuthi ngokuzama ukugculisa uNkulunkulu ,ngilahala ubuhle bemvelo nezinjabulo zokuphila njengokokuba uNkulunkulu wazidala .Ngiya ngokuya ngikuthola kunzima ukumphendula uma ekhuluma ngalendlela.Ningangipha…
Ukukhula ngokobukhrestu kunye nendlela yokukhula
Kungani kudonsa kimi ukukhula njengoMKhrestu? Sengibe yikholwa isikhathi impela ,futhi ngimelwe ukuvuma ukuthi izinga lokukhula kwami kwezikamoya lingithena amandla.Ngamhla ngizalwa ngokusha ,ngakithi impilo izoba ngenzima kusuka lapho kuya phambili,kodwa emva kweminyaka ngizithola ngingakabi yilomuntu engangifuna ukuba nguyena.Angibuzwa ubukhona bukaNkulunkulu ndlelanye engangibuzwa ngayo ekuqaleni.Ngiyazi ukuthi enhlizyweni yami ukwesaba nokuzicabangela mina ,kuyisikhisi…
Ingane izibuza ukuthi engabe izilwane ziyaya yini ezulwini
Ngakube izilwane zami o-doggy doggy bayoya nami eZulwini? Ngiphatheke kabi ngoba inja yami isandanakufa .Sesibe naleyonja ekhaya ,kusuka ngazalwa ,manje angiyiboni impilo eyoba mnandi lo -doggy doggy engekho .Ngike ngabuza uMawami ukuthi soyibona yini eZulwini ,uvese wathi angiyobuza uthisha wami kasontoskole,ovese wathi yena ,cha iZulu elabantu akulona elezilwane.lokho kungiphathe kabi.Nicabanga…
Ubudlelwano obuguqukayo kwi-teen
Ngakube kungokwejwayelekile ukuthi ubudlelwano bengane nomzali buguquke uma isiyi-teen? Bengihlala njalo ngiseduze kundodakazi wami,kodwa izinto azisefani njengokuba eseyi-teeanger.Angisakwazi ukuxhumana naye-Uhlale njalo e-texter kumbe exhumana nabangani bakhe nge- cellphone yakhe .Ngizizwa sengathi ngilahlekelwe yinto eligugu kimi.Ngenzenjani?
Ukunakekela izingane sikhathi sinye nabadala ungalindele
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli ukuzikhipha ekwakheni nabantu
Nicabangani ngamaKhrestu athatha inqubo yokuzikhipha kubantu ayokwakha wodwana?Adayise imizi yawo ,ayokwakha ehlane wodwa ezintabeni,alayishe ukudla ,ayozitshalela izitshalo zawo ,ayophila njengabasunguli bese elwela ngawo wonke amandla ukuzimela kwinqubo yokuphila yomhlaba? Baninganyana abantu engibaziyo asebethathe lendlela.Angibaphikisi ngokuphelele ekugcineni,ngikholwa sonke singangcono uma singathi ukuzihlubula ubuntofontofo bobumnandi bempucuko bese sifunda ukuphila ngendlela elula nje…
Ukunakekela izingane sikhathi sinye nabadala ungalindele
Ngakube siwacabange yini amathuba okuthatha uMawethu simlethe ekhaya ,sikhathi sinye sisanakekela izingane zethu ezintathu ? Sinama teenager amabili noyedwa osamncane .Asiwuthandi umqondo wokuyisa uMawami ekhaya labadala,kodwa asifuni futhi ukuzithola esimweni esicindezelayo okwesikhashana njengoba sisabhekene nokukhulisa lezingane. Luhloboluni lwezinselelo enicabanga ukuthi singase sibhekene nalo?
Ukubuka ngeso le-bhayibheli ukungena komkhrestu kwi – fine arts
Ngokokubuka kwebhayibheli ikhona indawo evumelanayo ne-Arts kulona, kumbe yintshisekelo nje yabantu bezomhlaba ? Singabona kanjani i-art enhle nembi? Indodakazi yethu ,ingumfundi we-art e university ,manje sinokukhathazekela ukuthi imosha nje amandla nesikhathi sayo.Ikakhulukazi sikhathazeke kakhulu ngengxenye yezokuziphatha kulokhu ekwenzayo-iclass lakhe elingokudweba izithombe zasekuphileni limdinga adwebe abantu abanqunu benotho abalwenzayo! Ninomuzwa onjani…
Ukubuka ngeso le-bhayibheli ukungena komkhrestu kwi – fine arts
Ngokokubuka kwebhayibheli ikhona indawo evumelanayo ne-Arts kulona, kumbe yintshisekelo nje yabantu bezomhlaba ? Singabona kanjani i-art enhle nembi? Indodakazi yethu ,ingumfundi we-art e university ,manje sinokukhathazekela ukuthi imosha nje amandla nesikhathi sayo.Ikakhulukazi sikhathazeke kakhulu ngengxenye yezokuziphatha kulokhu ekwenzayo-iclass lakhe elingokudweba izithombe zasekuphileni limdinga adwebe abantu abanqunu benotho abalwenzayo! Ninomuzwa onjani…
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni one-couple ebulili-bunye
Siye yini emcimbini womndeni lakhona ne –couple eyizinkonkoni izobe ikhona? Udadewabo womnyeni wami ushade nenye intokazi .Lezintokazi ezinhle siyazithanda zombili kodwa asivumelani nempilo eziyiphilayo.Kunomcimbi omkhulu ekupheleni konyaka ,manje umnyeni ufuna siye nathi.Nami ngiyafuna ukuya ,kodwa sinezingane ezintathu ezisencane ,futhi angazi kuzozithinta kanjani lokhu .Ngenze njani?
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni one-couple ebulili-bunye
Siye yini emcimbini womndeni lakhona ne –couple eyizinkonkoni izobe ikhona? Udadewabo womnyeni wami ushade nenye intokazi .Lezintokazi ezinhle siyazithanda zombili kodwa asivumelani nempilo eziyiphilayo.Kunomcimbi omkhulu ekupheleni konyaka ,manje umnyeni ufuna siye nathi.Nami ngiyafuna ukuya ,kodwa sinezingane ezintathu ezisencane ,futhi angazi kuzozithinta kanjani lokhu .Ngenze njani?
Ukulawula ukudinwa kuma-teenager
Ngingamsiza kanjani undodana wami oseyi –adoloscent ukuba abhekane nokudinwa kwakhe? Kulula ukuphawula ukuthi uthukuthele kakhulu ngokuthizeni,kodwa nginomuzwa oqinile wokuthi ,uyayivalela ayicindezele imizwa yakhe yenhliziyo.Ngizamile ngebengingakwenza,ngehluleka ukumenza akhulume ngayo.Ngenze njani?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 2 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubengi – shendeza. Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela, kungikhungathe kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe, namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje, futhi angikazi ngenze njani .ningangipha indlela?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 1 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubene shende .Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela ,kungikhungathekise kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe ,namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje ,futhi angikazi ngenze njani .Ningangipha indlela ?
Ukungena emshadweni usesikhungweni semfundo ephakeme
Ngakube mina nengizwa uthando naye, sishade phambi kokuba si thole iziqu? Sobabili singaMaKhrestu asevuthiwe, futhi senze isibophezelo sokuzigcina simsulwa ngokocansi kuze kube semshadweni.Sesixhumane emva kwezinyanga ezingu 5, okuthe emva kwesikhathi eside sithandaza ,sanquma ukushada eminyakeni emibili. Abazali bethu bavuma kodwa abami bakhalaza ngesikhathi esisinqumayo. Ngino 19 weminyaka futhi ngunyaka wokuqala…
Ukungqubuzana kukababa nondodakazi
Ngingakuletha kanjani ukuzwana phakathi kwe- teenager yethu nomnyeni wami? Njalo uma uyise emlanda esikoleni kuba ngukuthi uqala impi naye kumbe amnike inkulumo ende ukumtshela ukuthi wehluleka kangakanani ezifundweni zakhe.Bese undodakazi akhulume kimi ediniwe kumbe ekhala .Amabanga esikole asehlale eyinkinga kundodakazi wethu, futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi simelwe ukwenza konke esingakwenza ukumgcina ekhaliphile…
Ukunamathela ngenhliziyo komunye oseceleni kanye nokuholela kwi-sahlukaniso
Ngakube uthando lwangasese oluncike kwimizwa yenhliziyo kuphela uma lude luphindeka ,ibhayibheli liyakuvumela ukuba uhlukanise ngenxa yalo? Ngezindlela eziningi umkhwenyana unamathele ngothando lwenhliziyo kwabanye abesifazane lokho osekulethe ufa emshadweni wethu .Okuse fresh nje okubandakanya intokazi ubesondelene nayo kakhulu ngenhliziyo .Ngikhathele ukulokhu ephika ,nanxa sesibe kwi counseling amahlandla amaningi ,alukho uphawu engilubona…
Ukubhekana nentsha engamavila
Ngingawagqugquzela kanjani ama teenager ami amabili angamavila?Awakwazi nokungisiza ngomsebenzi wasendlini, futhi bayaziba kuze kube ngumzuzu wokugcina kuyila enza umsebenzi wawo wesikole. Njengomzali ongayedwana angibi nawo amandla okubafaka ngempoqo emsebenzini.Ikhona yini indlela yokunqamula lenqubo kubona?
Ukulawula inzalo nokubuka okungokufa
Ngakube kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kokulawula inzalo nokuhushula? Mina nonkosikazi wami siyathanda ukuba nomndeni lusuku lumbe, kodwa ngezizathu ezithile, sibona asikakulungeli lokho okwamanje. Kuleminyaka emibili sishadile sibufunile ubuso beNkosi ngenkombandlela futhi asizange sibe nokungabaza ngesinqumo sethu sokuthi ukuqhubela phambili kancane ukuletha izingane, ngokuthi sikwenze lokho ngendlela yokulawula inzalo okwamanje sisebasha emshadweni…
Okumele ukucabange phambi kokuqhelelana
Ningakukhuthaza ukuqhelelana emshadweni ozizwa usufike kwangqingetshe? Iminyaka eminingi umshado wethu ubhekene nesifo esiqhubekayo sokulimala ekujuleni.Ngaphansi kwalesisimo , ngizibuza engabe kungcono yini ukuqhelelana okwesikhashana.Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngikhathazeke ngezingane zethu .Nicabanga senze njani?