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Umkhwenyana ongathembekile ufuna ukuba sothandweni nomunye wesifazane
Ngibhekane kanjani nokungethembeki komkhwenyana wami osekwenzeke ngokuphindaphindwa aze angiqonde angicele ngqo ukuthi ufuna ukuba nothando lwaseceleni nomunye wesifazane ? Yonke leminyaka umshado usube sesivunguvungwini .Ekugcineni nje useze wavuma ukuthi usothandweni nomunye ngasitha.Ngimthethelele ukuphinga kwakhe,kodwa manje uthi ufuna ukukhulisa ubudlelwano anabo bangaphandle ebe eqhubeka elayikhaya.Ngizimisele ukutakula umshado wethu ,nokho angifuni ukumchukuluza…
Umfana ona 3 udlala ngokugqoka izingubo nosisi bakhe
Ngingamvumela yini umfana wami ona 3 weminyaka ukuba adlale ngokugqoka izingubo nodadewabo ? Akajabuliswa nje kuphela ukugqoka amalokwe abo odadewabo ,kodwa uze agqoke nobucwebe bamantombazane.Kimi loluphawu alwehli kahle.Ngingalumisa kanjani
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli-Ubumqoka benkonzo yekamero emshadweni
Ngakube inkonzo iseqhulwini kangako emshadweni onempilo ? Nakhu okwenza ngibuze .Siyaphikisana nowakwami .Ungitshela ukuthi inkonzo ingcwele yisacramente futhi luyimfihlakalo engcwele ,nokuthi imelwe ukuba yindikimba yobudlelwano bethu .Uze asebenzise kwabaseFesu 5: 30-32 ukweyamisa lenkulumo yakhe.Angivumi mina,emva kwakho konke ,kuningi okungomshado ngaphezu kwenkonzo .Ngaphandle kwebhayibheli uqobo [1 Khorinte 7 :3-5] kubukeka lencwadi…
Ukupotshozela amalunga omndeni ngokudideka emshadweni wakho
Izinkinga nokudideka kwasemshadweni wami ngingakuxoxa yini nabazali bami nozalo ? Selokhu kwathi nhlo singumndeni onamathelene ,futhi bambalwa abantu engibathembayo.Umshado wethu awukho eziwenguwengwini ,koda nje kunezikhathi lakhona ngidinga ulekelelo lokuphefumula.Lokho kulungile yini
Ukulumbanisa Ukuhlupheka KoMkrestu nevesi ‘Konke kusebenzelana kube ngokuhle
Ubuhlungu nosizi kungaba kuhle kanjani? Kubukeka sengathi njalo uma aMaKhrestu exoxa ngalesihloko ,omunye uvese acaphune kwabase Roma 8 : 28 .Lelivesi liliqiniso ngempela ? Sengibone amaKhrestu ebhekana nezinhlupheko ezifanayo nabangakholwa ,imvamisa okuphetha kungaveli lutho oluhle ,kulokho okungokubuka kwami .Ningangisiza ukuqonda lempicabadala
Ingane esaba izinambuzane nokusamabhungane
Ngingayisiza kanjani ingane yami encane inqobe uvalo lwayo lwezinambuzane ? Ihlale yesaba amabhungane ,inkinga usanda kutinyelwa yinto esikoleni ngesikhathi sokudla,usevese avevezele uma kuwukuthi kumele i-classs liphume .Sithini isisombululo
Ubungani bobulili obuhlukene emshadweni
Kunecala yini koshadile ukuba nomngani wobulili obuhlukile ? Ngesikhathi umkhwenyana wami esohambweni lwesonto ,ngicele uzakwethu wesilisa emsebenzini ukuba azongisiza ngengane yami enonyaka nengxenye .Sagcina sesibuka i-TV nokusebenza eminye imisebenzi yasemsebenzini emva kokuthi lengane yami ibisilele.Ekubuyeni komkhwenyana wami ,uphatheke kabi ,wathi unovalo lokuthi ngingase ngishendeze .Ngokwakhe ubona kungenakwenzeka ukuba abantu abadala…
Ingane esencane eseyadlula ngokweba
Umfana wethu oneminyaka emine singammisa kanjani ukweba ? Kubukeka yonke indawo esiya kuyo ,isenkonzweni ,esitolo ,elibrary ,nasemakhaya abangani – uphuma esephethe into okungesiyo eyakhe .Nginomuzwa othi uphethwe ukunganaki ,kokuvese afake utho ephaketheni bese eyakhohlwa .Mina nomkhwenyana wami sesikhulume naye kaningana ukuthi kungani kukubi lokhu kuziphatha .Simtshelile ukuthi lithini ibhayibheli ngokweba…
Ukutewuzela ezinganeni
Ninawo amasu ukusiza ongena ebubhungwini ukuba angabi yisitetelegu ? Uyazifela ukushobozela kwasani futhi uphatheka kabi uma simenqabela akaphumuze oncamngce.Uba nengcindezi emva kwezinsuku uma edle ukudla okumfanele ngokwezempilo .Singasibuyisa kanjani isimo la kuye
Wenza isikhathi nabangani bakhe ubaba nomama wenza esabakhe
Nicabanga kuwumqondo omuhle kobaba nomama ukuba nezinto abavama ukuzenza nabangani babo bobulili bunye ngaphandle komunye? Umkhwenyana wami uzizwela isidingo esinqala ukuba ndawonye njalo ngenyanga ,kodwa mina ngixolela ukusebenzisa isikhathi sami esiningi naye .Nami ngiyazikhipha izikhashanyana nabangani bami besibhuda ,kimi ngiye ngibone kwenele .Kuthini ukucabanga kwenu
Umkhwenyana ukhathazekile ngengcindezi ngesikhathi u makoti ezithwele
Kukhona engingakwenza ukusiza unkosikazi wami ozithwele ekubhekaneni nomoya oguquguqukayo kuye? Usengasekugcineni kwezinyanga zakhe ,kodwa usebukeka enengcindezi .Osekuba yisiphazamiso ebudlelwaneni bethu .Kukaningi ngizwa ngengcindezi eba kumama emva nje kokuteta ,manje ngakube kujwayelekile yini ukuba umama avese acindezeleke engakateti
Ingane esikhulile yenze izinqumo ezingezinhle
Yikuphi esingakwenza ukukhuthaza undodana wethu omdala ukuba akhule manje? Wenze izinqumo ezibi ngokwempilo ,umsebenzi ,indawo yokuphila ,nangabangani .Emva kokumkhulisa ngobuKHRESTU siphoxekile kakhulu .Khona manjalo asikwazi ukuzixolela ngomuzwa wecala wokuthi sehluleka kuphi .Kukhona esingakwenza ukubuyela emumva ,ngaphandle kokugxoba imingcele efanele?
Ukukhuthaza Ingxoxo Niwumndeni
Kusemqoka kanganani ukuhlale kuhlale umndeni ube nethuba lokuxoxa? Emshadweni wethu ukuxoxa sekube yingwadla eside isikhathi,kodwa mumva nje sengiqaphele ukuthi lenkinga isithungele nasezinganeni: kubukeka akasekho layikhaya onesikhathi sokuxoxa nomunye.Angazi lokhu kwenzeke kanjani ,futhi ngiyamangala ngokukushoyo ngempilo yomndeni kwezobudlelwane.Kodwa ngingenze njani ukucima lomhlolo?
Odivose enengane ,ufuna ukubuyisa umshado
Ngingaqhubeka nomcabango wokubuyela emshadweni wami ngenxa yengane ? Sobabili singaMakhrestu ,ngeshwa sigcine nje sesihlukanisa.Emasontweni ambalwa edlule ngizizwa nginomzwangedwa ngalokhukwehlukwana esimweni senganyana yethu .Nicabanga ngenze kuphi ?
Inkambiso Yokusebenzisa i-Cell phone ezinganeni
‘izingane zingavunyelwa ukuba nama smart phone nokunye okuwubuchofo? Omdala useyashayela ,ngakho besemgwaqeni .Uwakwami yena ucabanga bayawadinga amaphone ukuze bakwazi ukuxhumana nathi .Nikubona kuwumqondo omuhle lokho ?’
Ukuhuheka phakathi kwabangani abashadile
Ngibhekane kanjani nomuzwa o-romantic esingiwuzwa ngonkosikazi womngani wami omkhulu? Mina nalowesifazane sisanda kubona komunye nomunye ukuthi sinokuhuhekelana nokuthi sesidinga ukwakha udonga ukuze sivikele imishado yethu,kodwa asazi sikwenze kanjani lokho .Mina nonkosikazi wami singo business partners kunye nalabashadikazi kuyo yonke leminyaka elishumi .Kukhona eningakuphakamisa?