Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ebuzalini i-quality time iqhathaniswa ne - quantity time
Ngakube isikhathi esihle [quality time] engisisebenzisa nomndeni wami yiso esimqoka kunesiningi [quantity time] ?
Abazali baphikisana ukuletha usizo enganeni esikhulile
Ngakube mina nomnyeni wami siyisize yini indodana yethu esikhulile ikwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zayo zezimali? Lokhu sekube ngumdonsiswano omkhulu emshadweni wethu.Isizimele kodwa iyehluleka .Uma ngithi mina asiyisize ngosizo oluncane lwezimali ,uyise uthi cha aisyiyeke imelwe ukufunda ubunzima bempilo .Mina ngikhathazekile ngayo.Nicabanga senzenjani?
Umehluko ongukhiye phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane
Ngaphandle kwengaphandle elibonakalayo ,yini ingempela umehluko oqavile phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane? Sengibe nokudideka okukhulu ngemiyalezo eshiwoyo ngobulili nangendlela okubizwa khona.Ngikholwa ngukuthi ukhona umehluko ebulilini bobubili odinga ukuchunyiswa ngendlela.Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngiye ngiphelelwe ngamagama uma abangani bami bethi angiwuchaze phela.Ningangisiza?
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Part 2 of 2)
Phambilini ohlelweni ezomndeni sasiphendula ukububula komlaleli wethu owayefuna usizo owayezizwa njengesehluleki nawaselahlekelwe yithemba empilweni yakhe. Ukukhala okunjalo kuyithinta ngokujulile inhliziyo yethu futhi siye sifune ukungenelela sisize ngokushesha.
Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki (Part 1 of 2)
Sewake waba sesimweni la kusengathi impilo iyama futhi ithemba liyaphela?Leyomizwa akumele neze ithathwe kalula, kumele futhi ihlaziywe ngoseceleni ongakwazi ukuletha ukubona okwehlukile esimweni.Abantu abazizwa belahlekelwe yithemba, bayinhliziyo yethu la kwa Focus on the Family
Imithetho yokuziphatha ngendlela komndeni oxubile
Sinquma kanjani ukuthi abantu babizwe ngamaphi amagama emndenini wethu omusha oxubile? Umshado wesibili lo kimi nakumnyeni wami ,sobabili sinezingane ezino 3 weminyaka esashada .Lezingane sezizikuleyominyaka.Sezino 6 manje enye ino 7 .Mumva nje indodakazi yakhe isiqale ukungibuza ngo Mah.Ekuzweni kwalowo wesifazane owayagane lomnyeni wami kumphathe kabi lokho.Nathi samchazela, sethuke njengaye,njengokuba lomndeni…
Ukulingwa umthandazo nokuqapha kwamoya
Uma ngithandaza uNkulunkulu ngeke yini angivikele ekulingweni ? Nasi isizathu sokubuza kwami .Nakuba ngingazi ubungozi obungaseduze nomshado wami ngokwempilo yawo ,nokho ngisenovalo ,ukuthi ndlelana thizeni ,ngisengashelelela ngiwele ekuphingeni .Ngisanda kuzwa indoda ivuma ukuthi iwele kulesilingo nanxa ibithembekile emshadweni wayo ,nakuba ibizame kaningi ithandazela ukungaweli esonweni socansi .Lokho kungesabisile.Kungani uNkulunkulu enqabe…
Isithembu nokuthandwa ngabaningi - indlela yokubuka yezwi
Kungani ngingamukeleki ukuba nomndeni ozisekelo zayo yizwi uma kuwukuthi ngithandana nabaniningi besifazane ? Amadoda anqala ezwini –oAbraham Jakobe,Davide noSolomon –babenamakhosikazi amaningi .Ngokubuka iministry yenu egxilile ezwini ,angiboni lutho olwenza nimelane nezinto ezinjengesithembu nezingodosi .Ngizibona nginguMkhrestu othanda ukuba nezingodosi .Ngithanda abesifazane abathe xaxa ngesibalo impela ,akukho sizathu esingenza singakwazi ukwakha isisekelo…
Amantombazane nabasefazane ekugqokweni kwamabhulukwe
Ngingalivumela itshitshi lami ligqoke ibhulukwe? Ngakhuliswa ekhaya labazalwane abanomthetho lakhona kwakaugcizelelwa ukugqoka ngesizotha kwamantombazane. Ukusho ngqo ,uMawami wangenza ngiqonde ukuthi amantombazane akumele agqoke ibhulukwe ,” owesifazane makangagqoki okwendoda ,nendoda mayingembathi ingubo yowesifazane ,ngokuba yilowo nalowo okwenza lokho uyisinengiso kuJehova uNkulunkulu wakho” [Dut 22:5] .Kulezinsuku abesifazane sebegqoke amabhulukwe –hhayi nje ekhaya…
Ukuxoxa nomuntu omusha ngokuzibulala komngani wakhe kumbe amjwayele
‘Ngixoxe kanjani nomfana wami osemusha ,mayelana nomngani wakhe osanda kuzibulala ? Lowomfana bebengaphezu kokujwayelwana naye ,manje ngiyazi lesisenzo siwuphulile umoya womfana wami ngokujulile.Ningangisiza ukungicija ukubeka kahle lesihloko kuye ?’
Ukululama Enhliziyweni Emva Kwesimo Esibuhlungu
Ngingathola kanjani ukululama ekuhlasimuleni komzimba nosizi ? Inyanga yonke edlule ngakithi sibhekane nezikhukhula ezibuhlungu.Thina nje silahlekelwe yikhaya ,ukuphazamiseka kwesikole nomsebenzi okuchaza ukuma kweholo ,ukusambatheka ngekusasa.Manje njengokuba lokho sekwedlule ,sisagotshiswe amadlangala kwenye indawo ,siyimindeni,sengiqale ukubona ukuthi sisazophila nobuhlungu balesikhukhula eside isikhathi lesi .Ningangisiza ukudondolozela kulomqansa?
Izizathu ukulubekela Imfundo Ephakeme
Kungani kumele ngiye e University ? Indlela mina engibuka ngayo ,amakolishi awabumbi isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuba sibe abadala abanokhiqhizo nobuholi,lokho okungasizi mfundi ukufinyelela ezimpokophelweni zakhe .Kungani uzicwilise ezikweletini ngenxa nje yokuthi kunomuntu olindele ube neziqu ? Kungani uchithe iminyaka yakho emide usebenzela ucwezu lwephepha nje ologcina lukubeka ezingeni lokuhola okufanayo nongenalo?…
Umkhwenyana ozibuza ngakube abambe iqhaza lokuba ngumama
Kukhona oku-wrong ngobaba abahlala ekhaya? Njengamanje angisebenzi kanti nonkosikazi wami uhola kahle ,lokho okwenza ngibone kungcono nginakekele ikhaya nabantwana .Ngisaqala kwakubukeka kungumqondo omuhle kodwa manje senginongabazane.
OGogo noMkhulu abalekelela Omama nobaba abamatasa
Ngakube thina njengoGogo ,simelwe yini ukuthatha isikhala sobuzali kubazukulu ? Undodana wami nomakoti bayasebenza futhi bahlale bematasa ngokwevile.Ngiye ngizithole nekhehla lami sesithatha iqhaza lobuzali esikhundleni sabo ukuze bone babhekane nobutasa bemisebenzi yabo.Siyakujabulela ukuba nabazukulu futhi sibe lusizo ngalendlela .Kodwa kwesinye isikhathi ngiba nomuzwa wongabazane .Nicabanga ukuthi lokhu kuluhlelo oluhle?
Ukuqondisa Izigwegwe Enganeni Engekho kunyathela kunye
Yini engingayenza ukwenza indodana yami ithobele okushiwoyo yenze ngokulalela? Indodana yethu encane inenkani ,ulibeka nayo ilibeke.Ayiwenzi umsebenzi wayo wesikole futhi ayifuni noku cleaner ekamerweni layo.Uma sizama ukuxoxa nayo ngaloludaba ngomoya ophansi siphetha sesiphakamisa amaphimbo .Yini esingayenzi kahle ?
Akathembekanga Umlisa Obukipite Naye
Ngenze njani ngobaba wengane ebengihlala naye ongikhohlisile ? Sesihlale ndawonye iminyaka emininganyana ,manje ngisanda kuthola ukuthi ubexoxa ngemiqhafazo ezothando nomunye umngani wami .Uma ngimqonda ngqo ,uthe kube yimi imbangela .Emva kwalokho wangilaxaza nengane yethu ,wayozihlalela noyise kubo .Lokho sengingathekisa ukuthi kungifaka ekubeni ngumzali oyedwana.Ngizizwa ngishiwe esiqhingini ngilimele.Ngenze njani ?
Ubizo luqhathaniswa nokuzinikela emndenini
Njengomlandeli kaKhrestu kumele ukuthembeka okukhulu kwami kube kuphi? Nebala siyazi ukuthi uKhrestu umelwe ukuba luthando lwethu lokuqala, nokho abazalwane abasemsebenzini weNkosi baye babe nokuqophisana nokudonseka kulezizinto ngokumele kube seqhulwini.Ngakube umndeni noma ibandla kuqala, kumbe ibandla kuqala?
Uyalelo lwebhayibheli olungokunikela kunye nokulindelwe KuMaKhrestu
Umyalelo wokunikela nokulindeleke kuMaKhrestu, kungatolikwa ngendlela engesiyo kwesinye isikhathi kumbe kungagqizwa qakala, lakhona aMaKhrestu esimanje ekholelwa wukuthi imithetho eyabekwa nguMose seyishanelwe nguKhrestu, qede wasishiya nemithetho emibili kuphela ukuphila ngayo. Umqondo wokukhipha okweshumi ubukeka ungasenandayo ,futhi AMaKhrestu amaningi aye aphike ubumqoka bakho kulezinsuku. Ngokuhlaba umxhwele ukuthi iThestamente elisha linokuningi elikusho ngokunikela,…
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Part 2 of 2)
Ningangihola ekutheni ngintweza kanjani emcabangweni wokuqhelelana emshadweni? Umshado wami kade waqala ukuhlaselwa wukuhuzuka .Okugcine ngokuba sifike esiphethweni sokuthi –simelwe ukuqhelelana okwesikhasahana –okuyinto ebuhlungu leyo .Ngeqiniso angazi ngempela noma lomshado wethu uzosinda, kodwa ngenxa yezingane zethu nokuphumula kwengqondo, simelwe ukungena kulesinqumo . Sitshele bani? Sobabili singaxhumana ndlelani ngesikhathi sisahlukene?Ezezimali nokunye sibhekana…
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Part 1 of 2)
Ningangihola ekutheni ngintweza kanjani emcabangweni wokuqhelelana emshadweni? Umshado wami kade waqala ukuhlaselwa wukuhuzuka .Okugcine ngokuba sifike esiphethweni sokuthi –simelwe ukuqhelelana okwesikhasahana –okuyinto ebuhlungu leyo .Ngeqiniso angazi ngempela noma lomshado wethu uzosinda, kodwa ngenxa yezingane zethu nokuphumula kwengqondo, simelwe ukungena kulesinqumo . Sitshele bani? Sobabili singaxhumana ndlelani ngesikhathi sisahlukene?Ezezimali nokunye sibhekana…