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Ingane Ethi Ifuna Ukufa
Ngakube kumele yini ngethuke uma undodana wami oneminyaka engu 6 athi ufisa sengathi engabe usefile?Lenkulumo uyisho kimi namhlanje ,lapho ngivese ngathuka ngenye indlela ngavese ngangazi ngithini kuyena.Ngenzenjani?
Izimo Zengcindezi Yokukhathazeka
Ngingumkhathazeki ,futhi lenkinga iyadlanga.Sengike ngezwa abantu bekhuluma ngoguquguquko lokukhathazeka oluzishintsha imibala,kodwa angazi lokho kuchazani.Ngingabona kanjani ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwami kungokujwayelekile ? Nokuthi ngenzenjani?
Ukuzibuza ngonakekelo lukaNkulunkulu
Singathembela kuNKULUNKULU ezidingweni eziphathekayo kubantwana bakhe abathembekile? kwabaseFiliphu 4:19 kubukeka ethembisa kanjalo .Selokhu ngalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi nganamathela kulelivesi,kodwa alibukeki lingisize ngantoni nomndeni wami. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule silahlekelwe umuzi wethu,imoto nezinto eziningi .Kube nzima kakhulu lokhu kodwa okweqile imibuzo okunginike yona engqondweni.Ngibonile ukuthi amaKhrestu amaningi athembekile endulo aphila nanxa izidingo zawo zingafezekile.Anqubuzana…
Izeluleko Kuma-Teenager Noku Nokuxoxa Online
Uthini umbono wenu nge –teenager ezibandakanye ne –social network kunye ne –online chat rooms?Sengike ngafunda izinkulumo zamanye ama teen kuma –sites indodakazi yami efuna ukungena kuwona ,futhi abukeka engenabungozi .Nokho nginokusabela ukulahlekelwa ngukulawula ingane yami ,igcine iphethwe ngontaka bayo.Ngakube kumele ngikhathazeke?
Indodakazi Engena Ebuntonjini Enokujwayelana Nowesilisa Osemdala
Sivume yini ukubona undodakazi wethu ona 16 abe seduze nowesilisa osekhulile kunaye .Uneminyaka engu 25 futhi u-involve kakhulu kwi band yama worshiper ebandleni lethu .Kusukela nyakenye yena lowesilisa usebe nobudlelwano obungaqondakali kahle nondodakazi wami ababubiza ngo ‘brother –sister’.Ungowesilisa othandekayo futhi ohlonishwayo ebandleni lethu ,kodwa ngezizathu ezithile umqondo kaMawami wokusola into…
Umphumela Namacahaphazelo Esahlukaniso Ezinganeni
Ngakube ukudivosa kwami kuyoba namachaphazelo ayohlala isikhathi eside ezinganeni zami? Umshado wethu usube ngonzima kakhulu ,mumva nje sengixoxe nommeli wezahlukaniso ze ngicabange engingakwenza.Izingane zami zisencane ziphakathi kuka 8 no 14 weminyaka –kwesinye isikhathi ngiye ngibe nengcindezi enkulu ukucabanga ukuthi isehlukaniso sizozichaphazela kanjani.Kwesinye isikhathi ngizithole nginesibindi sokuthi izingane ziyakwazi ukuthula zimukele…
Ukusebenzisa Imali Yokweshumi Ukusiza Abazali Asebekhulile
Ngakube kungaba liphutha ukusebenzisa ingxenye yokweshumi kwethu ukukhokhela isikhungo sabanakekela abadala?Sesibonile nebala isimanje sisigcina simatasa ukuzipha isineke esanele nabazali .Njengokuba nezingane zethu ziyofunda e varsity khona lapho sibhekene nanokunakekela umkhwe nomkhwekazi wami .Nicabanga senze njani?
Ukumisa Utakalani Ekushayeni
Ngingamisa kanjani undodakazi wami ona 2 weminyaka ukushaya umfowabo onezinyanga ezingu 10? Uyamkhahlela ,amshaye ,amlume ,amklabalasele amjikijele nangamathoyisi .Kwaqala ngesikhathi eqala ukukhasa.Loluhlobo lwesenzo lwenzeka nsukuzonke ,kaningi ngosuku.Sesenze okuningi ukumisa lokhu kuziphatha ,nokho okwamanje akukho okubukeka kusebenza ,ninazo izeluleko kumbe enikuphakamisayo?
Ukubhekana NeNkonkoni Engumzalwane Emndenini
Sithini kundodana wethu osese –varsity othi ungungqili unguMKhrestu ? Ukholwa ngukuthi uNkulunkulu wamtshela ukuthi akukho phutha ngobunkonkoni nokuthi utoliko lwebhayibheli lunezincaphephe.Okwedlulele ,ngukuthi lomqondo usewucobelele nomfowabo [onengeke kabi ngaye],futhi lomqondo wakhe ufuna ukuqhubeka ukuwutshala nakwabanye abancane .Kwezinye izikhathi ngidinwa ngiqhume ngize ngimemeze okomuntu ehayiza.Kwezinye izikhathi ngivese ngihlale phansi qede zehle izinyembezi.Siyamthanda…
Amakhosikazi Aholayo Enkonzweni Yekamero
Ngakube kunempilo yini ukuba omama bahole indlela ekwenzeni uthando emshadweni ?Mina nomnyeni wami siyaluthokozela kakhulu uthando lwethu nenkonzo nokho kunento eyodwa engihlale ngikhathazeke ngayo: Kunezikhathi lakhona ngilangazelela ukuzizwa ngisondele kowakwami,kodwa ngibe nongabazane ukuthi kuhle yini kimi ukuba ngiqale uhambo .Impela ngiye ngizitshele ukuthi okwendoda ukuqala uhambo.Kuthini ukucabanga kwenu?
Abazali Bavimba Ubudlelwano Bagogo Nezinganeni zabo
Sifuna ukuba sebudlelwaneni obuhle nabazukulu bethu, kodwa kulesikhathi undodana nomakoti wakwami basidudulela eceleni, okucaca; abafuni sisondele kubona. Okugcina singenamaxhama okuxhumana nabazukulu. Ngisho nala khona bebavumela, siba sincane kakhulu isikhathi esiba naso nabazukulu. Yiyiphi indlela enhle ukubhekana nalesisimo?
Ukuhlolela Inzalo Ngesikhathi Somethembiso
Ngakube kuhle yini ukucela intokazi engizoshada nayo ukuba ihlolelwe inzalo phambi kokuba sishade? Anguqondi umoya osukhona esikhathini sanamhlanje osuwumkhuba wokuthanda ukungabi nabantwana, hle hle mina kade ngaqala ukulangazelela ukuba nabantwana ngisho ngingakahleli umshado.
Ukusiza umngani ososizini lokulila
Kungabanzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi kuzomele ume kanjani esikhaleni sokusiza umngani wakho osekulileni kokushonelwa ngothandiweyo wakhe. Imvamisa asazi sibhekane kanjani nabantu abalilayo kumbe abesebuhlungwini obukhulu bemizwa yenhliziyo,okugcina sesiba namahloni sihlehle kulomsebenzi. Uma ufuna ukuba yilolohlobo lomuntu oluletha uhlobo olufanele lokuzwelana nomuntu ,nokunikeza umngani ithuba lokukhala, ngakho lalelisisa kahle ngoba la ohlelweni…
Ukusiza ingane ehlukunyuzwa ngokocansi
Ngingaluphatha kanjani udaba lokutholakala ukuthi elinye ilunga lozalo lomndeni womngani wami luphoqa ingane yakhe ukuyihlobonga ngocansi ? Angifuni ukungena ezindabeni zabanye abantu ,kodwa ngoba manje sengithole lolulwazi ngizizwa kumele kube nengikwenzayo.Kukhona enikuphakamisayo?
Ukuhlakulela ubundawonye bomndeni
Uthi bewazi nje ukuthi izingane zithola injabulo enkulu ngisho ezintweni ezincane, nanjengokuba zijabulela nezinkulu futhi? Ngakho uma ukuqondile ukuhlakulela ubundawonye nezingane zakho, izinto ezifana nokudla isidlo sasekuseni nindawonye, imidlalo ukuziculela amaculo asamdlalwana nisemotweni noma nizihlalele, lokho kusengaphenduka kube yinto izingane zakho ezingasoze zayikhohlwa ekukhuleni kwazo.
Ukubeka eqhulwini nokuhlela isidlo somndeni ekhaya elimatasa
Umndeni wethu ungadla kanjani ndawonye nanxa umatasa? Ngiyafuna ngempela ukufeza lempokophelo ,kodwa sibhekene nezingqinamba eziningi ,futhi ngiyesaba nokusaba.Ama-schedule ahlale egcwele ,sekuyinqubo yethu ekhaya neyami nayo iyanyinyitheka.Esikhathini engiphuma ngaso emsebenzini kusuke sekuyukuyojama kwi traffic ,ekhaya ngifike ngo 6:00 sekukusihlwa vese.Ngalesosikhathi ngiyazi ukuthi mangase ngimoshe isikhathi eside ngenza izidlo ezihlabahlosi ,ngingathi ngiqeda…
Ngakube ngicwile ezinkambeni?
Kugcine sekukholakala ukuthi ukuze ube ngumcwili ophuzweni umelwe ukushona ngamadevu ophuzweni usuku nosuku. Kodwa lokho akusilo iqiniso neze. Kahle hle kuyenzeka ube ngocwile ezinkambani ngisho kwawena ungaziboni.
Izisekelo zebhayibheli ngokunikelela abampofu
Lithini ibhayibheli ngenhlupheko nokunikelela abampofu? Ngifuna ukukuqonda ngobuNkulunkulu lokhu,kodwa nje eqinisweni kimi njengomzalwane osemusha eNkosini ngibe nokudideka ngeminye imibono ngeminikelo engizwe ngayo.Ngakuba nibuka lesisenzo njengesinye esimqoka empilweni yobuKhrestu?
Ingcindezi nokuzibulala: Izimpawu nezexwayisayo
Uma kukhona omaziyo oseduze nawe onengcindezi, nakanjani umelwe ukulalela loluhlelo Ezomndeni lakhona namhlanje sizobe sixoxa ngamaphuzu ambeka engozini kunye nezimpawu ezexwayisayo ngengcindezi nokuzibulala.Ungabe usaya ndawo.
Ingane esikhulile ithwele kanzima ngezothando oluseceleni lomzali nomlingani wakhe
Abazali bami basanda kuhlukanisa ngoba uMawami wayephinga .Kusuka lapho usehlala nalomlisa futhi bahlela ukushadana kungekudala .mina nomnyeni wami siphila eceleni,futhi sekwenze kwanzima ukubhekana nakho konke lokhu. UMawami ungidinelwe ukungemukeli leli soka lakhe ngezandla ezifudumele. Usabisa nokungasaphinda ahlanganyele nathi uma sinemcimbi yomndeni, kodwa eqinisweni ngempela ,angimfuni lomlisa wakhe. Ngicabanga nginobunzima ukusebenza…