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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Abazali bakhathazekile nge-homework eningi
Ngenze njani uma ingane yami esafunda e-primary ine- homework eningi kakhulu ,okugcina kwehlisa nesikhathi sokuba ndawonye siwmundeni? Njalo ntambama uba namahora amaningi awasebenzisa enza ama-assignment. Ngokokubuka kwami kwamanje akathathi kancane ekuqedeni emsebenzini. Yingoba muningi kakhulu umsebenzi wakhe. Ngakube wonke lama –homework amangaka adingekile ekufundeni nasekuthuthukeni kwempilo yengane esakhula?
Ukusiza ingane ibhekane nempilo yesahlukaniso
Ngingawasiza kanjani ama teenager ami abhekane nokuklayeka komshado wami? Kubuhlungu kithi sonke,kodwa ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngondodana wami omdala .Kusuka uyise wangishiya emva konyaka,ubukeka ezifaka engcindezini enkulu ukuba yindoda layikhaya.Lokhu kunzima kakhulu kuyena ngoba ngonyaka ozayo ubebheke ukuya e –university .Manje ubona kumphoqa alekelele ekhaya.Ngenze njani ngaye nazo zonke ezinye izingane?
Ukuthandana ngenhliziyo kunye nobungane obuqhubekayo
Ngakube mina nomnyeni wami sibunqamule ubungani nenye i-couple ngenxa yokuthi nje lendoda nami sivese sangena ekuthandaneni ngokwenhliziyo kuphela ? Sekwadlula manje,futhi nowakwami nonkosikazi walendoda bathatha isinqumo esiqinile , esigcwele umoya wokubuyisana kuyo yonke lento eyenzeka.Ngazizathu thizeni ,sesamisa nokuhlanganyela ndawonye okwesikhashana.Ngisho ngokwethembeka nje ,sekube yingxenye le ebe ngenzima kulo lonke loludaba.Kungukulahlekelwa…
Inkambo enhle yobukhrest iqhathaniswa nengcindezi yezocansi
Ngakube ukuziphatha kahle ngokwezocansi ngokobuKhrestu akunampilo futhi akukho oemvelweni? Ngingowesifazane ozama ukuphila impilo emsulwa ,kodwa owesilisa engingena naye othandweni uhlala njalo engicindezela.Uthi umuzwa wami ngobumsulwa kwezocansi kungumuzwa nje ongenampilo wokwesaba –ngokuthi ngokuzama ukugculisa uNkulunkulu ,ngilahala ubuhle bemvelo nezinjabulo zokuphila njengokokuba uNkulunkulu wazidala .Ngiya ngokuya ngikuthola kunzima ukumphendula uma ekhuluma ngalendlela.Ningangipha…
Ingane izibuza ukuthi engabe izilwane ziyaya yini ezulwini
Ngakube izilwane zami o-doggy doggy bayoya nami eZulwini? Ngiphatheke kabi ngoba inja yami isandanakufa .Sesibe naleyonja ekhaya ,kusuka ngazalwa ,manje angiyiboni impilo eyoba mnandi lo -doggy doggy engekho .Ngike ngabuza uMawami ukuthi soyibona yini eZulwini ,uvese wathi angiyobuza uthisha wami kasontoskole,ovese wathi yena ,cha iZulu elabantu akulona elezilwane.lokho kungiphathe kabi.Nicabanga…
-DELETED- Abazali bakhathazekile nge-homework eningi
Ngenze njani uma ingane yami esafunda e-primary ine- homework eningi kakhulu ,okugcina kwehlisa nesikhathi sokuba ndawonye siwmundeni? Njalo ntambama uba namahora amaningi awasebenzisa enza ama-assignment. Ngokokubuka kwami kwamanje akathathi kancane ekuqedeni emsebenzini. Yingoba muningi kakhulu umsebenzi wakhe. Ngakube wonke lama –homework amangaka adingekile ekufundeni nasekuthuthukeni kwempilo yengane esakhula?
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli ukuzikhipha ekwakheni nabantu
Nicabangani ngamaKhrestu athatha inqubo yokuzikhipha kubantu ayokwakha wodwana?Adayise imizi yawo ,ayokwakha ehlane wodwa ezintabeni,alayishe ukudla ,ayozitshalela izitshalo zawo ,ayophila njengabasunguli bese elwela ngawo wonke amandla ukuzimela kwinqubo yokuphila yomhlaba? Baninganyana abantu engibaziyo asebethathe lendlela.Angibaphikisi ngokuphelele ekugcineni,ngikholwa sonke singangcono uma singathi ukuzihlubula ubuntofontofo bobumnandi bempucuko bese sifunda ukuphila ngendlela elula nje…
Ukubuka ngeso le-bhayibheli ukungena komkhrestu kwi-fine arts
Ngokokubuka kwebhayibheli ikhona indawo evumelanayo ne-Arts kulona, kumbe yintshisekelo nje yabantu bezomhlaba ? Singabona kanjani i-art enhle nembi? Indodakazi yethu ,ingumfundi we-art e university ,manje sinokukhathazekela ukuthi imosha nje amandla nesikhathi sayo.Ikakhulukazi sikhathazeke kakhulu ngengxenye yezokuziphatha kulokhu ekwenzayo-iclass lakhe elingokudweba izithombe zasekuphileni limdinga adwebe abantu abanqunu benotho abalwenzayo! Ninomuzwa onjani…
Ukulawula ukudinwa kuma-teenager
Ngingamsiza kanjani undodana wami oseyi-adoloscent ukuba abhekane nokudinwa kwakhe? Kulula ukuphawula ukuthi uthukuthele kakhulu ngokuthizeni,kodwa nginomuzwa oqinile wokuthi ,uyayivalela ayicindezele imizwa yakhe yenhliziyo.Ngizamile ngebengingakwenza,ngehluleka ukumenza akhulume ngayo. Ngenze njani?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 2 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubengi – shendeza. Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela, kungikhungathe kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe, namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje, futhi angikazi ngenze njani. ningangipha indlela?
Uthole ukuthi uwakwakho ube neshende - (Part 1 of 2)
Ngisanda kuthola ukuthi uwakwami ubene shende .Njengokuba nani ningazicabangela ,kungikhungathekise kanjani ukuthola lezondaba zokungethenbeki kwakhe ,namanje angikasanguluki ekuthukeni. Angikamqondi okwamanje ,futhi angikazi ngenze njani .Ningangipha indlela ?
Ukungqubuzana kukaBaba nondodakazi
Ngingakuletha kanjani ukuzwana phakathi kwe- teenager yethu nomnyeni wami? Njalo uma uyise emlanda esikoleni kuba ngukuthi uqala impi naye kumbe amnike inkulumo ende ukumtshela ukuthi wehluleka kangakanani ezifundweni zakhe.Bese undodakazi akhulume kimi ediniwe kumbe ekhala .Amabanga esikole asehlale eyinkinga kundodakazi wethu, futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi simelwe ukwenza konke esingakwenza ukumgcina ekhaliphile…
Ukubhekana nentsha engamavila
Ngingawagqugquzela kanjani ama teenager ami amabili angamavila?Awakwazi nokungisiza ngomsebenzi wasendlini, futhi bayaziba kuze kube ngumzuzu wokugcina kuyila enza umsebenzi wawo wesikole. Njengomzali ongayedwana angibi nawo amandla okubafaka ngempoqo emsebenzini.Ikhona yini indlela yokunqamula lenqubo kubona?
Okumele ukucabange phambi kokuqhelelana
Ningakukhuthaza ukuqhelelana emshadweni ozizwa usufike kwangqingetshe? Iminyaka eminingi umshado wethu ubhekene nesifo esiqhubekayo sokulimala ekujuleni.Ngaphansi kwalesisimo, ngizibuza engabe kungcono yini ukuqhelelana okwesikhashana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi ngikhathazeke ngezingane zethu. Nicabanga senze njani?
Ingane ehlale iqaphile kweqe
Ngakube simelwe ukukhathazeka ngengane esabayo ukuthatha ama risk kweqe? Umnyeni wami ucabanga simelwe ukuqinisa isandla impela -iphoqwe ukubhekana nesimo sokwesaba kwayo.Mina nginomuzwa imelwe ukunikwa ithuba ize ibe nokuzethemba ngokwayo. Nibona ndlelani ?
Ingane enovalo ngokuba yodwa
Singabhekana kanjani nomuzwa wovalo olukhulu kwindodana yethu eno 8 weminyaka ukusala yodwa? Ilala ekamerweni elilodwa nodadewabo ngoba yesaba ukulala yodwa .Ngeke umthole edlala yedwa ekamerweni lakhe ngaphandle uma kunomuntu khona .Esikhathini esiphambilini wake wazama ukuba yedwa ,wayevevezela [ejuluka ehefuzela ] .Uhlakaniphe kakhulu ,wenza kahle esikoleni impela ,udlala nekeyboard namadrum nezemidlalo…
Ukufundisa izingane ngokuzidela
Ngakube kumele ngizifundise izingane zami ngobumqoka bokuzidela? Asizwa kakhulu ngakho ebandleni kulezinsuku ,bese kuthi isikompilo labantu basemhlabeni alikugqizi qakala sanhlobo.Kodwa anginaso isiqinisekiso ukuthi izingane zethu zizoqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukulandela uJesu uma silahla lengxenye yobizo lomfundi kaJesu.
Ukuhlonipha i-teenager yakho
Ngingalinika kanjani iteenager lami inhlonipho elifanele? Ngingavuma ukuthi siyangqulana ngamakhanda kaningi –uluhlobo oludinga ukuqondiswa nokuholwa okuningi,okuphetha ngokuthi kungabi kuhle endlini .Kodwa angikholwa ngukuthi kukhona engikwenzile okumehlisa isithunzi njengomuntu. Kuchaza ukuthini ukuthi “umzali ahloniphe ingane?” ngakube ngingavese ngimdedele enze ngendlela yakhe –ngilokothe?
I-teen ifuna ukusiza umama abe nokuqonda ngezinguquko ebudlelwaneni babo
Uguquko usuka ebunganeni uya ekubeni yi-teenager wuguquko olukhulu empilweni, futhi ama-teen amaningi kanye nabazali bangakufakazela lokho. Kunezinguquko zomzimba nezomqondo ezenzekayo kulesigaba, futhi kuyasiza ukuqonda lamaphuzu zisasuka nje ukuze ungazitholi usuhilelekile ungazelele. Nakhu la khona abazali nama-teens abangasebenzisana khona ukudala umoya wokuhloniphana, futhi bagcine ubudlelwane obuhle, kungakhathalekile isimo sithini ngezinguquko nakanjani…
Ongumkhrestu ongashadile ubhekene nokubhajwa ekuhuhweni ngubulili obufanayo
Sewake wacabanga ukuthi uNkulunkulu ubengafuna ukuba ikholwa elibhekene nokuhuheka kwezobulili obufanayo lenze njani? Kumuntu obhekene nalengwadla kungumthwalo enhliziyweni yakhe ongagcina umfumbe phansi. Sizoletha inkombandlela ngalesihloko, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni