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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukulekelela izingane ebunzimeni bokungezeka kwezifundo
Ubutasa kakhulu bubukeka sebuyinsakavukela ,okuthi abanye abantu baze bazigqaje ngabo ngokokuthi bakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi kakhulu. Nokho, ukukhulisa izingane zethu kuma-schedule anyinyithekayo akulethi ubuhle ngokwezingane.
Ingane enenkani ayifuni ukulala
Impi yesikhathi sokulala enganeni iyinto evamile ekhaya, isikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho inenkani lokho okwenza ukhameke kakhulu futhi uma ungazimisele ukuba nenkani yokubekezela nawe ungagcina wehluliwe.
Lithini ibhayibheli ngokuzixolela wena
Into enhle nekhululanayo ngokuba nguMKhrestu ngukuthi uKhrestu wafela ukuxolelwa kwezono zethu. Kodwa waphinde uJesu wafundisa amakholwa ukuxolelana njengokuba naye esixolele. Inkonzo yokuletha ukuthethelela kwabanye abantu, kungakhathalekile inzima kanjani, kodwa okungangabazwa ngayo la okholweni kwaKhrestu. Uma sekuziwa ekuzixoleleni ngamaphutha esiwenzile, ngolunye-ke udaba lolo. Mhlawumbe izono esezadlula ziyakwengama futhi awunasiqinisekiso ukuthi uzodlula…
Imingcele enganeni egula ngengqondo esikhulile
Ukuphazimiseka ngengqondo sekuyinsakavukela esikhathini esikusona. Ukukhulisa ingane ephazamiseke ngengqondo akulula futhi kubiza amava amaningi ukukwenza ngokuhle.
Impi yokugqoka ngokuhlonipheka kunye nezingubo kubazali nentsha
Uma kungukuthi undodakazi wakho oyi-teenager ukuqhumisa ikhanda ngezamafeshini, nakanjani umelwe ukuhlala nathi ohlelweni Ezomndeni ngoba sizokhuluma ngendaba yempi yokugqoka ngokuhlonipheka nezingubo kubazali nama-teenager.
Ukukhuthaza umoya wokuncokola enganeni yakho
Abantu abaningi bayathanda ukuqhuma ngokuhleka izikhathi ngezikhathi, abanye ukuhleka baze bakubize ngekhambi lomphefumulo, bese khona lapho bakhona abanye abancokola nabahleka nje ngalesosikhathi, okunokwenzeka mhlawumbe i-personality yabo leyo esuke ivela.
Ukubhekana nokulwa kwabandawonye
Uma kunengane engaphezu kweyodwa ekhaya, nakanjani ungangibuza ungiphale ulimi, kuzoba khona uhlobo oluthile lokulwa. Umbuzo usekuthini okungakanani ukulwa ezinganeni ekhaya okumelwe umzali akuvumele futhi abhekene nakho?
Ukukhula ngokobukhrestu kunye nendlela yokukhula
Uma uzizwe untengezela mayelana nesimo sohambo lwakho lobuKhrestu awuwedwa, maningi amaKhrestu angqubuzana nalesosimo semizwa nsukuzonke. Uma kungukuthi kunokwenzeka, unentshisekelo ngokwethembeka ukubona ukukhula okubanzi, nakanjani uzokhuthazeka ngalokhu esizokusho khona la
Ubudlelwano obuguqukayo kwi-teen
Ngesikhathi ingane yakho ingena eminyakeni yobu-teenager, kunokwenzeka sewuqaphelile kunoguquko olukhona ngesondele kubona. Lakhona owake waba yindawo ephephile neyisifuba sengane yakho, usungakubona ukuthi sewugudluziwe, kwasekuba ngabangani bengane yakho asebethathe indawo empilweni yayo.
Ukunakekela izingane sikhathi sinye nabadala ungalindele
Kuvamisa ukuba nezigaba zempilo ekukhuleni kwethu, siphakathi nezingcindezi zezidingo zobuzali, sizithole ukuthi nabazali bethu sebesekukhuleni okudinga unakekelo lwethu. Yisimo leso okungelula neze ukubhekana naso, Kodwa khona simile.
Ukuya emcimbini womndeni wabashadile ababulili-bunye
Njengabazali abangaMakhrestu sifuna ukuhlala siqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zethu ziyazazi izinsika zokuphila uKhrestu asifundise ukuphila ngazo. Nokho sidinga futhi ukuzenza ziqonde umhlaba lo owele esonweni, esiphila kuwona.
Ukungena emshadweni usesikhungweni semfundo ephakeme
Imishado ezweni lakithi iyehla ngamazinga asheshayo, bangu 30% kuphela abasesigabeni sokushada abashadile. Ngakho uma sizwa abasha bethi balungisela ukungena emshadweni kuyasijabulisa lokho kakhulu, nokho ,ngakube kungubuhlakani yini ukushada ngesikhathi usese university?
Ukunamathela ngenhliziyo komunye oseceleni kanye nokuholela kwi-sahlukaniso
Ziningi izinhla eziholela ekwakheni ukuthembana emshadweni, futhi okuthi uma abashadene bezibambe kahle, nakanjani kuzoba nokuqina kokukhula kobudlelwane. Uma ngencaphephe kube ngukuthi uwakwakho usenamathele komunye ngenhliziyo, kulapho kanye ozozwa kwehla ngokushesha izinga lokwethembana phakathi kwenu.
Ukulawula inzalo nokubuka okungokufa
Isihloko sokulawula inzalo sesibe ngesinempikiswano ndlelaningi kuleminyaka. Baningi abaphikisana naso ngoba bethi sitshala isiko elingokufa.
Ongumkhrestu ongena othandweni nongakholwa
AmaKhrestu amaningi anokuzethemba kokuthi noma angangena othandweni nongakholwayo ayokwazi ukumguqula abe nguMKhrestu mase sebesejokeni linye lomshado.
Ingane enomoya ongemuhle
Uma ingane inokuziphatha okunganamisi futhi ibuka yonke into empilweni iyimbi, ingamnandi iyimfithimfithi, lokho kungaluphawu lokuthile oku serious kakhulu, kodwa kusenokwenzeka futhi ukuthi uguquko lokuziphatha lusekuhlelekeni.
Izimpawu zobungozi be-social media kwabashadile
Ngakube unabo ubungani kwezokuxhumana nabantu bobunye ubulili?Uxhumana nalaba bantu ngaphezu kokuxhumana nowakwakho? Yimibuzo esemqoka ukuzibuza yona uma uthemba ukuvikela umshado wakho ekuqhekezekeni.
Ubuzali emva kwesahlukaniso
Esigabeni sesahlukaniso, ubuzali buba ngobunzima, lakhona nezingane zibhekene nokuba ngubhandemtshelekwane; ngelinye ilanga zikumama ngelinye zikubaba. Kwezomndeni namhlanje sethembe ukukulethela izinkombandlela eziphilile ukuthi ungabugcina kanjani ubudlelwane obunempilo nemingcele emva kwesahlukaniso ,ukuze izingane zinonophale ngawe.
Ukulekelela uwakwakho akwazi ukuphatha kahle ezezimali
Uma sihlaziya abashadile kuye kubukeke ukuthi udaba lwezimali luyinkinga ephezulu emshadweni. Kulesimo esinzima somnotho miningi imindeni eqhukuza kanzima ukuxosha ikati eziko. Ukuze kuphilwe kahle kubiza ukuba I –couple ibe mqomndomunye ekwenzeni I budget nokusebenza kwemali . Kungaba lukhuni satshe uma omunye kwi-couple engasiboni isimo umndeni okuso ngokwezimali.
Ukulekelela uwakwakho akwazi ukuphatha kahle ezezimali
Uma sihlaziya ama-couple ashadile kuye kubukeke ukuthi udaba lwezimali luyinkinga ephezulu emshadweni. Kulesimo esinzima somnotho miningi imindeni eqhukuza kanzima ukuxosha ikati eziko. Ukuze kuphilwe kahle kubiza ukuba laba abashadile babe mqomndomunye ekwenzeni I-budget nokusebenziswa kwemali. Kungaba lukhuni satshe uma omunye kwi-couple engasiboni isimo umndeni okuso ngokwezimali.