Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ongumkhwenyana nobaba onomakhwepheni obulili bunye naye
Ukuqhumisa izindaba ezinganeni zakho zokuthi uwakwakho usenekhwapha noma uyashendeza, ngumthwalo ongelula neze loyo nakunoma imuphi umzali.Bese kuthi uma kungukuthi kanti lobushwampeshwampe akubona uwakwakho bungobulili obubodwa nobakhe ivese ingazekeki ke leyo.
Ingane engafuni uMawayo oyi-single mother angene othandweni olusha
Akulula ukungena othandweni olusha emva kokudivoswa uma uyi-single mother. Uma ingane yakho kade iqhelile kumzali, bese ingathi ingaseduze bese yaziswa ngophila nabo engabazi, kungebe lula kuyo ukuzoqala leyompilo. Umuntu engenza kanjani ukuthi izingane zibe sisemweni esihle ngenkathi engena ebudlelwaneni obusha?
Izingane ezingabazayo ngoNkulunkulu
Uma ungumzali onguMKhrestu othandazela izingane zakhe, ucela uNkulunkulu ukuba azembule kuzona abe ngophilayo, angicabangi uwedwa kulowomsebenzi. Kungumthandazo osezindebeni zamakholwa amaningi angabazali. Wonke umzali onguMKhrestu ufuna ukunethezeka ekwazini ukuthi ingane yakhe ishisekela uNkulunkulu futhi imkholwa ngenhliziyo yayo yonke ebuNkulunkulunkulwini baKhe. Ukukhuthazeka kuziletha ngesikhathi ingane yakho izibuza ngokholo nobukhona bukaNkulunkulu. Umuntu wenzenjani…
Ukuqhumbuza ezomshado kwezokuxhumana (social media)
Uma izinkinga ziqhumbuka emshadweni wakho uya kubani? Abashadile abaningi banenkinga yokungaxoxi ngokunganeliseki emishadweni yawo. Kungaba nzima ukuba nalezongxoxo ubuso nobuso nowakwakho, yingakho abanye abantu baye bethi ukuphefumula kubangani ekuveleni kwethuba yindlela yokuxosha intuthu. Kwabanye lolohlobo lwabangani lukwezokuxhumana, ngakho ukuphefumula kwenzeka khona lapho. Kodwa ngeshwa loukuthi i-social media yibhodwe lomhlaba wonke…
Izimpawu zenhlese embi emshadweni nge-social media
I-social media isihluzwe njengenye yengxovane esibe nenhlese embi emshadweni yokudala izingxabano ngisho nezehlukaniso imbala. Kulolulwazi oselushiwo, kungaba ngubuhlakani ukuzipha isikhathi sicwaninge kahle nesixhumana nabo kuma-social media ukuze sivikele imishado yethu. Sijula kancane ngalendaba khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukuvuselela umshado wenu senizihlalele nodwa
Abashadile abaningi bawela kunoxhaka wokufaka umdlandla wawo ezinganeni, kangangokuthi uma sezihamba, basala umama nobaba sekuheleza umoya emshadweni wabo. Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni sikhuluma ngemininingwane yongakulindela uma izingane zakho zingasekho.
Ukuvangela isizukulwane se-technology
Siye sikhulume ngesizukulwane sanamhlanje nokuthi impilo isibe ngenzima kanjani kulabo abazalwe manje esikhathini se-simanje. Kushukumbisa ubuzali, ukukhetha izifundo, inkambiso yokuxhumana nabanye abantu nokuningi.Kodwa sona lesizukulwane sithinteke kanjani ekubukeni kwaso uNkulunkulu neBandla? Amabandla amaningi azibuza lemibuzo futhi afuna izimpendulo ukuthi engenza kanjani ukufinyelela kangcono kulesizukulwane ngevangeli.
Osekuthombeni ucabanga ukuthi abamhloniphi abazali bakhe
uyi-teenager ezwa sengathi ibanjwe wulawulo lwabazali ,ngakho hlala nathi. Kusenokwenzeka ungayithandi imibono yabo kunye nezinqubo zokukuholela endleleni enhle okusengabukeka kuyinto efile kuwena, kodwa amathuba amakhulu aveza ukuthi balangazelela okuhle kuwena.
Ukukhonza izinto zabesifazane kunye nokuzazi ukuba ngowesilisa
Amagama abizwa ngawo umuntu kuyathukela elusizo ,ikakhulukazi lakhona ubuwena busesitikini kunye nobulili bakho.Igama “inkonkoni” liwu-mthiks wegama elasungulwa yingqondo nje :igama elisho lokhu abanye abantu abathi lichaza khona –okungekho lutho olungale ,olutheni.Ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizoxoxa ngokuziqonda kobulili kowesilisa bese sisiza insizwa esencane iqonde ukuba ngowesilisa ngokweqiniso ,hlala ungasuki.
Ubuzali ngokubambisana nokungabambisaneki naye owake waganana naye
Uma ubaba noMama bemqondo munye kwinqubo yokuphila kuye kwakekhe indawo enhle yezingane futhi ziqonde imingcele yazo kanti uma abazali bebuka ngendlela ehlukene ebuzalini babo, lokho kungabanga izinkinga eziningi nezingane ziba nokudideka okuningi.
Izinsolo Zokuhlukumeza Ngomzanyana
Mzali,ake ucabange ngomoya wemizwa wokuba semcabangweni wokuthi umzanyane wakho uhlukumeza ingane yakho.Ukushiya izingane zethu nabanye abantu kubiza ukubethemba ,kodwa uma lokho kubethemba makuke kwaba nongabazane yilapho okudaleka ukukhathazeka okukhulu .Sizokuxoxa lokhu kabanzi la ohlelweni Ezomndeni ,ngakho hlala nathi.
Ukugcina Ubudlelwano Nezingane Emva Kwe-Divosi
Akulula kumzali odivosile ukuxhumana kahle nezingane zakhe uma kungukuthi inkantolo ivune ukuthi izingane azibe sesandleni sodivose naye ,bese wena ukwazi ukuzibona kabili noma kathathu kuphela esontweni .Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizokhuluma ngokuthi ubaba engenza kanjani isikhathi esihle kakhulu nezingane zakhe ,ungabe usasuka .
Friend Request Kwi Social Media Evela Othandweni Lwakudala
Ngakube kuyinhlakanipho kuwe ukumukela i-social media friend request kowake wathandana naye phambilini? Abanye bangathi akukho bungozi ukuxhumana,khona manjalo abanye bangaba nezinqinamba eziningi abathi zabangwa yilawo ma –friend request emshadweni.Sizokhuluma umqondo wethu ngaloludaba la ohlelweni Ezomndeni,ungabe usasuka.
Unkosikazi Ongasenkamunkamu KuMkhwenyana OsewuSteteleku.
Amakhosikazi namadoda amelwe ukuqaphela izidingo zenkonzo yekamero zabaganane nabo qede bazifezekise kahle ngawo wonke amandla.Kodwa wenze njani uma umuntu oshadene naye engasakulangazalele ngenxa yokuthi usevese waziyekelela ? Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje sizosiza owesifazane okulesisimo ,hlala nathi .
Ukuchazela Izingane I-Addicton Yezithombe Zobunqunu
Ucabanga ukuthi ungaba sesimweni sokuvuma ezinganeni zakho ukuthi usohambweni lokusizwa ukuphuma kwi-addiction yezithombe zobunqunu[porn]? Abazali abaningi bangasho u ‘chabo’ omkhulu kulowombuzo. Manje ungathini mangase sikutshele ukuthi udaba olufuze lolu luba namava amakhulu amahle ekukhuleni kwezingane zakho.
Ingane Ethi Ifuna Ukufa
Seyake ingane yakho yavese yaqhuma yasho into, eyakushokha kwabanda amathumbu? Imvamisa amagama awanaso isisekelo esikhulu futhi angadluliselwa kwimizwa yenhliziyo ezogalopha, kodwa kunini lakhona okumele siqaphele ukuthi kunotho oluyinkinganyana enkulu la?
Ukuzibuza ngonakekelo lukaNkulunkulu
Wenze njani uma izethembiso zikaNkulunkulu zibukeka zingelona iqiniso kuwe? Ngakube ukholo lwakho uyalulahla kuYe kumbe ulubekela ukuqonda kangcono iQiniso laKhe na?
Indodakazi Engena Ebuntonjini Enokujwayelana Nowesilisa Osemdala
Singawaxwayisa kanjani amadodakazi ethu ngamathuba ezikhisi uma emningi ekubeni nabesilisa asebekhulile, ngisho ethi kithi, ayi bajwayelene nje nabo? Imvamisa amantombazane angama-teenager awafuni ukuzwa loluhlobo lwezeluleko ,ngakho kumelwe umuntu aqikelele kakhulu indlela eza ngayo.
Ukusebenzisa Imali Yokweshumi Ukusiza Abazali Asebekhulile
Ukubhekana nezezimali zethu ngokwezinsika zoBuKhrestu kufaka izinto ezithile. Okunye kwakho ngukuthi AmaKhrestu alindeleke ukunikela okweshumi, bheka ku-2 Izikronike 31:4&5.AmaKhrestu atshelwa ukunakekela izintandane nabafelokazi.Aphinde ayalwe ukwazisa oyise nonina ,nokunakekela abendlu yabo, funda-1 Thimothewu 5:8.
Ukubhekana NeNkonkoni Engumzalwane Emndenini
Ungaphendula uthini uma utshelwa ngenye yezingane zakho ukuthi iyinkonkoni kodwa isenguye uMKhrestu?