Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Abazali Bavimba Ubudlelwano Bogogo Nezinganeni zabo
Uqhelelano emndenini ngeshwa lwenzeka zikhathi zonke, kwesinye isikhathi ngisho kungekho nento ephathekayo edala ukwehlukana. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizokhuluma ngokuthi ungawubuyisela kanjani umndeni osuhlukene.
Ukusiza intombazane eyi-teen ibe ngowesifazane (Ingxenye yesibili)
Ohlelweni lwethu olwedlule Ezomndeni sasinqamulela izinto ezingu-12 ezidingwa yiyo yonke intombazane encane ze ifinyelele ohambweni lwayo lokuba ngowesifazane okhulile, ngokuzizwa ephephile enokuthula komphefumulo. Sizoqhubeka ngalolo luhla kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje.
Ukusiza intombazane eyi-teen ibe ngowesifazane (Ingxenye yokuqala)
Kuningi ukukhuluma okuphezulu nokubuka mqondo mningi ngesihloko sobulili kulezinsuku kwezokusakaza.Izingane zikhula esimweni esehlukile kakhulu uma usiqhathanisa naleso sezakhula eminyakeni engu-50 eyadlula. Ngakho,kulesisimo izingane zethu ezizithola zithe shuthe kusona ,umuntu ingempela angayisiza kanjani intombazane esathomba ukube idlulele ikhulele ekubeni ngowesifazane? Sizodingida lesihloko ezihlokweni ezibili kusuka namhlanje.
Ukuxoxa ngokudideka kobulili nentsha
Kwisikompilo lanamuhla lakhona sibondwe saphekwa, intsha ibhekene nezinselelo ezingaphezu kwezethu, cishe mhlampe mina nawe esingazange sibhekane nazo sikhula.Ukudideka kobulili yinqubo le engenisile impela okwenza intsha eningi iqale izibuze ubuyona nangendlela enhle uNkulunkulu ayidala ngayo.Manje abazali bangaxoxa kanjani nezingane zabo ngaloludaba lokudidwa ngubulili entsheni? Sifuna ukuzoletha izinkombandlela namasu angukhiye ukukwazi ukwenza…
Isikole esiyi-bording ezinganeni zezisebenzi zeNkosi
Miningi imibono ngokuthi yiziphi izinqubo ezingcono ngemfundo yezingane zethu. Eminye imindeni ephume uphumo lomsebenzi weNkosi kuye kubize yenze izinqumo ezinzima ezincike ekutheni ithunyelwe kuphi.Sizobhunga lokhu kabanzi la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukubhekana nokugeleza kwemiqhafazo yezocansi entsheni
Ukuqhumbuka kwemiqhafazo yezocansi [sexting] yinto e serious kakhulu entsheni ezibandakanya nezithola ezindleleni ezehlisa ukuziphatha.Abazali ngeke empeleni bakwazi ukuvikela lesisenzo, kodwa badinga ukuqonda ngezingozi qede bathathe igxathi eliqinile ekutholeni ukuthi kusenokwenzeka ukuba ingane yakho ikinateleke kulokhukuziphatha okucekayo.Sizokhuluma ngezindlela zokubhekana nokugeleza kokuqhuma kwemiyalezo yezocansi ,khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni .Ngakho hlala nathi.
Ukuqonda i-sexting yentsha
Njengomzali we-teen ngakube I –sexting yinto okumele ngikhathazeke ngayo ? Sengizwe kaningi ngalokhu ezindabeni, kodwa angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ingane yami ingaqoleka yilesilingo.Asikaze sikhulume ngakho ngoba angisheshi kweze technology,futhi angazi ngqo kubandakanyi ini.Ngale kokuthi ,uyingane enhle.Nicabanga ngimelwe ukusimungunya lesihloko naye?
Onomgudu wokuzitshela
Sewake wezwa ngomuntu okuthiwa uyazitshela? Leligama livamisa ukusetshenziswa kumuntu ozibona emqoka nozazi yena. Akulula ukushadana nomuntu onalemigudu, nokho leligama lokuzitshela kuyenzeka lisetshenziswe ngendlela okungeyona. Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje sizomchaza kangcono lomuntu.
Owesifazane wayengenziwa kanjani ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu oziveza engowesilisa
Kuningi ukuqophisana ngobulili nokulingana kulezinsuku, okubiza ukuba AmaKhrestu amelwe ukubambelela ezinkolelweni zawo zebhayibheli ukuze amelane nokujivazwa ngokwe-media nabalwela inkululeko ewuvuma zonke.Kodwa ibhayibheli likhuluma ngowesifazane akhiwe ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu, lokho okungaletha ukudideka okuningi ngoba uNkulunkulu ubizwa ngoBaba, okusihlawumbisela ukuthi uyiNdoda. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizoletha amasu aphusile ngalesihloko esiyindidabuchopho, hlala nathi .
Ungavikela kanjani ukunga-spoil ingane yakho
Kubazali ukuba bavimbe uku-spoiler izingane zabo, kudinga ukuqaphela ekufundiseni izinto ezisemqoka nokuthi bangabanakekela kanjani abanye abantu. Iningi intsha ekhula yazi ukuthi yilungelo layo yonke into nokuba nokulunga okungenayo impilo.Okuba lula ukuzama ukudlulisa I blame komunye ,kodwa uma sethembekile, kungumsebenzi womzali, ukufaka izinkambiso eziyohamba nengane kuze kube sebudaleni. Sizoletha amava okuthi…
Ukwenza izikhathi zokudla zomndeni ezithokozelekayo
Izikhathi zokudla niwumndeni zinomaka ohlala isikhathi eside olusizo. Uma imindeni ingase iqonde ukumisa ezinye izinto bese izipha isikhathi sokudla ndawonye, izixoxela lokho kuyohamba ibanga elide ukudala ukunamathelana nokuzizwa usekhaya. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizoxoxa ngokuthi ungaqiniseka kanjani ukuthi izikhathi zezidlo ekhaya ziba ngezokudla komphefumulo,hlala nathi.
Ukukhulisa ukuzethemba ezinganeni
Njengabazali sifuna ukwenza izingane zizizwe ndlelazonke.Uma sakha ukuzibuka okuhle ezinganeni zethu, nebala sobe sifinyelele emgomweni wethu, ngoba okunye kuyozilandelela. Sizokhuluma ngokuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokho, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ingane okubukeka ilala kweqe
Sewake wabhekana nempi yokuthi kumele uyivuse njalo ingane yakho uma iya esikoleni? Kwesinye isikhathi ngisho ivuka kuqala ingagcina imanqika ukuvuka ngokubanjwa ngokuthile.Izindaba ezinhle ngukuthi kawuwedwa. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizosiza umama ukubona ukulala kweqe kwengane yakhe, ngakube yingoba kuqhamuka kuyona kumbe kunento e-serious okumele ayithole.
Ingane Esekuthomeni Enamahloni Nobunyube
Kunini lakhona kumele umzali akhathazeke ngamahloni nobunyube ekuziphatheni kwengane? Ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizodingida ngezimbangela ezisekujuleni ezingaba nobudlelwano ekwenzeni ingane ibe ngunkomo idla yodwana.
Ozongena Ekubeni Ngubaba Ukhathazekile Ngezindleko Ne-responsibility
Ukungena ekubeni ngumzali ngokouqala kungakwenza ukhathazeke, ngisho nokwesaba imbala. Kodwa loluhambo oluhle lokuletha isizukulwane sakho akumele neze kukwenze ungalali yimicabango, uxukuza ingqondo ngokokuthi uzobhekana kanjani nalomsebenzi omusha.Sizokhuluma ngalokhu ngokuthe xaxa la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukusungula Izindlela ezihlabela phambili zokuxhumana nezingane
Wonke umzali ufuna ingane yakhe ivule kahle izindlebe,ilalelisise okuthiwe mayikwenze kuze ube nokuxoxisana okuhle naye.Kodwa, emzini eminingi, kunabazali ababeleselayo nezingane ezingomazibana, okuhlale kuyinkwamangqubuzana usuku nosuku. Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngokuthe xaxa ngezindlela ezinqala zokuxhumana nenganei.
Ubaba Ongaziphethe Kahle KuMalokazana Nakwabanye Besifazane
Amalungu emndeni yethu angaba nganzima ukuphila nawo kwesinye isikhathi.Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni sizodingida ukuthi kwenziwa njani ngobabezala onokuziphatha okungekuhle kumalokazana wakwakhe.Nebala ungaphuthelwa yilenkulumo.
Ubaba Owadivosa Ingane Ayimthandi Umamncane
Kunezinga elikhulu lemizwa yenhliziyo izingane ezingena kuyona uma abazali bedivosa, futhi zenza izinto ezehlukene ngenhloso yokubhekana nalomuzwa ongaphakathi wokulimala nokulahlekelwa. Uma sekufka omusha esikhaleni somzali wazo, lokho kungeza enye ingxenye osekumele manje ingane ibhekane nayo. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizosiza esimweni lakhona ubaba odivosile edinga ukubhekana nesimo sesanciza esisha nezinkinga zalomgudu azifake…
Izimo Zengcindezi Yokukhathazeka
Uke uzithole ukhathazekile ngempilo? Ngakube unokwesaba ukuthi kuzokwenzakani kwikusasa,kumbe uke uzithole ungakwazi ukulawula umqondo wakho ongenakuzola?Uma okunye kwalokhu esengikuchazile uzithola ukokunye kwakho,nebala umelwe ukulalela loluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje lakhona sikhuluma ngogingqigongqo wemizwa yokukhathazeka nokuthi ingelapheka kanjani. Ungabe usanyakaza.
Izeluleko Kuma-Teenager Noku Nokuxoxa Online
Uma kungukuthi ingane yakho ihlale ikuma-online chat rooms namanye ama-social media sites, ngakho hlala nathi uzwe kabanzi la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.Sizokhuluma ngokuthi ingakanani inkululeko efanelekile, nokuthi kunini lakhona kumelwe kube nokuxwaya ukuze ingane yakho ivikeleke ebungozini engabhekana nabo.