Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Umphumela Namacahaphazelo Esahlukaniso Ezinganeni
Kuhlale njalo kunokukhathazeka ngamachaphazelo esahlukaniso ezinganeni,kodwa abantu abaningi abazi lamanembe ahamba afike ekujuleni kangakanani empilweni yengane, kuze kube sebudaleni.Sizokhuluma kabanzi ngalokhu la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukumisa Utakalani Ekushayeni
Ngakube ubhekene nokuklwebhana kwezingane ekhaya? Ngakube kunengane ehlale njalo iqhoqhobele ezinye ngamandla? Lesisimo akusikho ukuthi asejwayelekile kodwa sihlale singengesilula ukusilawula.Ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngokuziphatha okungamukelekile kotakalani.
Amakhosikazi Aholayo Enkonzweni Yekamero
Kumnyeni nonkosikazi: ikamero lisengaba yindawo yokudonsana. Kubukeka kunamasiko asenyonyobe angena ekucabangeni kwethu, kumbe asenqubuzane nenqubo yeBhayibheli ngokufanele mayelana ekugcineni inkonzo yekamero. Sizosiza unkosikazi namhlanje ohlelweni Ezomndeni ukuthi unenkululeko ephelele ukuba ngoqala inkonzo yekamero kumnyeni wakhe.
Ukuhlolela Inzalo Ngesikhathi Somethembiso
Inhliziyo yomuntu iceba indlela, kepha uJehova uyaqondisa izinyathelo zakhe.[Izaga 16:9] Lesisaga asilona iqiniso na? Sisengaba nemicabango ukuthi sithanda ukuba impilo yethu ihambe kanjani,kodwa iNkosi yiyo ezoqondisa icebo lempilo yethu .
Obaba nomthelela abanawo kumadodakazi abo
Obaba badlala indima edingekile enqala emndenini.Banomthelela omkhulu ezinganeni zabo ,okugcina kuba ngumthelela esizweni sonkana. Njenge-ministry siya ngokuya sikhathazeka ngokushoda kobaba emndenini,nokuthi ukungabikho kobaba kuba nomthelela onjani esizweni sonkana.Sizokhuluma ngeqhaza elimqoka elidlalwa ngubaba kundodakazi wakhe.
UMKhrestu onongabazane olujulile ngensindiso Kwakhe
Elinye lamaqhinga aqavile esitha ukwehlisa isithunzi iZwi likaNkulunkulu bese sidlale incithakalo emqondweni wethu, silethe ungabazane nokwesaba ndlelazonke esingakuletha ngazo. NjengaMaKhrestu sidinga ukulazi leliqhinga qede simelane nalo siqinile.
Ukuthola ungoti wezemishado okhaliphe kakhulu
Uma kungukuthi ushadile, nebala usecebeni likaNkulunkulu alihlela emaphakadeni, ngisho kungathiwa kuba nezikhathi ezinzima kangakanani umshado wakho ,ukufanele ukufuzula kwakho ngamandla akho onke! Namhlanje ohlelweni Ezomndeni, sizoletha umhlandlela wokuthola ungoti wezemishado, uma kuya ngoba umshado wakho usumathubeni okuklayeka phakathi.
Ukusiza umngani ososizini lokulila
Kungabanzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi kuzomele ume kanjani esikhaleni sokusiza umngani wakho osekulileni kokushonelwa ngothandiweyo wakhe. Imvamisa asazi sibhekane kanjani nabantu abalilayo kumbe abesebuhlungwini obukhulu bemizwa yenhliziyo,okugcina sesiba namahloni sihlehle kulomsebenzi. Uma ufuna ukuba yilolohlobo lomuntu oluletha uhlobo olufanele lokuzwelana nomuntu ,nokunikeza umngani ithuba lokukhala, ngakho lalelisisa kahle ngoba la ohlelweni…
Ukuhlakulela ubundawonye bomndeni
Uthi bewazi nje ukuthi izingane zithola injabulo enkulu ngisho ezintweni ezincane, nanjengokuba zijabulela nezinkulu futhi? Ngakho uma ukuqondile ukuhlakulela ubundawonye nezingane zakho, izinto ezifana nokudla isidlo sasekuseni nindawonye, imidlalo ukuziculela amaculo asamdlalwana nisemotweni noma nizihlalele, lokho kusengaphenduka kube yinto izingane zakho ezingasoze zayikhohlwa ekukhuleni kwazo.
Ngakube ngicwile ezinkambeni?
Kugcine sekukholakala ukuthi ukuze ube ngumcwili ophuzweni umelwe ukushona ngamadevu ophuzweni usuku nosuku. Kodwa lokho akusilo iqiniso neze. Kahle hle kuyenzeka ube ngocwile ezinkambani ngisho kwawena ungaziboni.
Ingcindezi nokuzibulala: Izimpawu nezexwayisayo
Uma kukhona omaziyo oseduze nawe onengcindezi, nakanjani umelwe ukulalela loluhlelo Ezomndeni lakhona namhlanje sizobe sixoxa ngamaphuzu ambeka engozini kunye nezimpawu ezexwayisayo ngengcindezi nokuzibulala.Ungabe usaya ndawo.
Ingane enekhanda eliqinile iveza umoya wokukulumana
Ukuqondisa imigilingwanyana yengane esencane kuwumqansa ngempela,singasayiphathi eyengane ebukeka ingezwa mshini. Abazali abaningi babhekana nobunzima ngezingane zabo ezincane, ngesikhathi zisafunda ukuphila nabantu futhi zibuke impilo ngokwazo ekuphaphameni kwengqondo.Okusifikela emqondweni njengamanje yingane eqhubeka iluma abantu okusuke kuluphawu lokuzilawula.Akekho umzali othokozela ukubona ingane yakhe iluma enye ingane noma umuntu kungekho cala, kodwa lokhu…
I-adoption nokwelapha i-Sensory Processing Disorder
Uma kungukuthi awukaze uzwe nge Sensory Processing Disorder ,kodwa umangele ngokuziphatha kwengane okungejwayelekile esesandleni sakho, ngakho lalelisisa. I-SPD ingachazwa ngokokuthi yisimo esiphathekayo sokungakwazi ukusebenzisa ukukhuluma okuze engqondweni ngokwemizwa, ukuze isebenze kahle kwimpilo yezinsuku zonke imvamisa lesisimo sidalwa wukwethuka okuhlasimulisayo eyabhekana nakho ingane isencane.
Ukugconana emndenini
Ngakube umndeni wakho ngomunye wemindeni ekhonze ukuncokola kuqhume uhleko? Ngakube uzithola wenza ihlaya ngamanye amalungu omndeni ze wonke umuntu ahleke? Ukugcona abanye kungenza umndeni unamathelane. Nokho, uma kwenziwe ngendlela engalungile, ukugconana kungaholela odweshwini olukhulu emndenini.
Ukusondela kolahlekelwe ngothandiweyo wakhe ngokuzibulala
Ukuzibulala kwentsha kuphezulu njengokuba izithola ithe shi kwi-negative thinking futhi izithole kujikelezo lwengcindezo nemizwa yokungabi nathemba.Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje siza nokuthi ungasondela kanjani kumhlobo onosizi olahlekelwe ngothandiweyo wakhe ngokuzibulala.
Abazali abankamunkamu nomakoti nondodana
Ukugcina ubudlelwano nezingane zakho esezikhulile, kunye neziganene nabo kuhlale kungelula. Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngabazali osekunoqhekeko kundodana nomalokazana wabo futhi abangazi ukuthi lolufa bazolulungisa kanjani.
Izingane nobungani obuphilile
Uma ungumzali kuba nzima ukuba yisibukeli ngesikhathi ingane yakho ihlulwa ukukhetha kahle abangane.Impilo yokuphilisana nabantu enganeni yakho isemqoka ngoba umuntu ubunjwa wuhlobo lwabantu abamzungezile.
-DELETED- Ophelelwe yithemba uzizwa eyisehluleki-II
Phambilini ohlelweni Ezomndeni sasiphendula ukububula komlaleli wethu owayefuna usizo owayezizwa njengesehluleki nawaselahlekelwe yithemba empilweni yakhe. Ukukhala okunjalo kuyithinta ngokujulile inhliziyo yethu futhi siye sifune ukungenelela sisize ngokushesha. Namhlanje sizoletha izibiba ezinamava okwelapha lesisisimo.
Abazali bavimba ubudlelwano bogogo nezinganeni zabo
Uqhelelano emndenini ngeshwa lwenzeka zikhathi zonke, kwesinye isikhathi ngisho kungekho nento ephathekayo edala ukwehlukana. Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizokhuluma ngokuthi ungawubuyisela kanjani umndeni osuhlukene.
Ukuhlolela inzalo ngesikhathi somethembiso
Inhliziyo yomuntu iceba indlela, kepha uJehova uyaqondisa izinyathelo zakhe.[Izaga 16 :9], Lesisaga asilona iqiniso na? Sisengaba nemicabango ukuthi sithanda ukuba impilo yethu ihambe kanjani,kodwa iNkosi yiyo ezoqondisa icebo lempilo yethu .Ohlelweni Ezomndeni namhlanje sizobuka ukuthi lokhu kunganomthelela kanjani kwabahlela ukushada