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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Unkosikazi Ongasenkamunkamu KuMkhwenyana OsewuTamu-texe
Ngenzenjani ukubhekana noqobo lokulahlekelwa ukulangazelela komnyeni wami ngomzimba wakhe osuvese waba yisitetelegu ? Sengizamile ukuba ngonenkuthazo nokusiqonda isimo.Ngizamile ukushintsha ibhodwe sehlise okukhuluphalisayo ,ngazinikela ukujima naye,ngazama nokumlalela ngozwelo eminyakeni eminingi eyedlule ,kodwa alukho nolulodwa yena alwenzile ukuguqula isimo sakhe .Angicabangi ukuthi kunengcindezi anayo ,yena nje kuphela akufunayo ukuzimolokohlela ukudla qede athi…
Ubaba Ongaziphethe Kahle KuMalokazana Nakwabanye Besifazane
Ngibhekane kanjani nokungaziphathi kahle kukababa kumakoti wami nabanye besifazane abasebasha?Sengidlulisile ukukhathazeka kwami kuyena ,kodwa uvese athi yindlela lena ayiyona futhi akukho kuguquka azokwenza yena.Nginqume ukuthi kuzoba kuhle ukuba singabe sisaba ndawonye naye kusukela manje,kodwa lokho kukhuba uMawam ngoba usathokozela ukusibona .Umakoti wami uthi ukulungele ukuzinikela abekezelele lempatho kababa,kodwa mina angithandi…
Ukuchazela Izingane I-Addicton Yezithombe Zobunqunu
Ikhona yini indlela enhle yokuxoxa mayelana noqukatho olungeluhle kowakwakho kwezocansi? Umnyeni wami usohambweni oluhle lokulapheka kulesisimo futhi uyethembisa kakhulu.Umshado wethu futhi uqinile kunanaphambilini ,kodwa izingane zethu seziqale ukubuza imibuzo mayelana nayo yonke imihlangano esimatasa siya kuyo.Angazi kumele ngiphendule ngithini.
Ubaba Owadivosa Ingane Ayimthandi Umamncane - Divorced Dad
Ngingenza kanjani enganeni yami ukuba engabi nyamana mbana uMamncane wayo omusha? Ngingubaba womfana omuhle kabi ono 6.UMawakhe wangidivosa lomfana wami eneminyaka eko 3 ,emva kwalokho wahamba wayoshada nenye indoda.Okwamanje nguye onelungelo elikhulu lengane, elami elokuyivakashela.Undodana akafuni ngibe ngowakhe nabanye abantu,futhi lokhu sekudale inkinga enkulu kimina ngempilo yokuphila nabanye abantu.Kwaze kwabiza…
Ingane Ethi Ifuna Ukufa
Ngakube kumele yini ngethuke uma undodana wami oneminyaka engu 6 athi ufisa sengathi engabe usefile?Lenkulumo uyisho kimi namhlanje ,lapho ngivese ngathuka ngenye indlela ngavese ngangazi ngithini kuyena.Ngenzenjani?
Izimo Zengcindezi Yokukhathazeka
Ngingumkhathazeki ,futhi lenkinga iyadlanga.Sengike ngezwa abantu bekhuluma ngoguquguquko lokukhathazeka oluzishintsha imibala,kodwa angazi lokho kuchazani.Ngingabona kanjani ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwami kungokujwayelekile ? Nokuthi ngenzenjani?
Ukuzibuza ngonakekelo lukaNkulunkulu
Singathembela kuNKULUNKULU ezidingweni eziphathekayo kubantwana bakhe abathembekile? kwabaseFiliphu 4:19 kubukeka ethembisa kanjalo .Selokhu ngalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi nganamathela kulelivesi,kodwa alibukeki lingisize ngantoni nomndeni wami. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule silahlekelwe umuzi wethu,imoto nezinto eziningi .Kube nzima kakhulu lokhu kodwa okweqile imibuzo okunginike yona engqondweni.Ngibonile ukuthi amaKhrestu amaningi athembekile endulo aphila nanxa izidingo zawo zingafezekile.Anqubuzana…
Indodakazi Engena Ebuntonjini Enokujwayelana Nowesilisa Osemdala
Sivume yini ukubona undodakazi wethu ona 16 abe seduze nowesilisa osekhulile kunaye .Uneminyaka engu 25 futhi u-involve kakhulu kwi band yama worshiper ebandleni lethu .Kusukela nyakenye yena lowesilisa usebe nobudlelwano obungaqondakali kahle nondodakazi wami ababubiza ngo ‘brother –sister’.Ungowesilisa othandekayo futhi ohlonishwayo ebandleni lethu ,kodwa ngezizathu ezithile umqondo kaMawami wokusola into…
Umphumela Namacahaphazelo Esahlukaniso Ezinganeni
Ngakube ukudivosa kwami kuyoba namachaphazelo ayohlala isikhathi eside ezinganeni zami? Umshado wethu usube ngonzima kakhulu ,mumva nje sengixoxe nommeli wezahlukaniso ze ngicabange engingakwenza.Izingane zami zisencane ziphakathi kuka 8 no 14 weminyaka –kwesinye isikhathi ngiye ngibe nengcindezi enkulu ukucabanga ukuthi isehlukaniso sizozichaphazela kanjani.Kwesinye isikhathi ngizithole nginesibindi sokuthi izingane ziyakwazi ukuthula zimukele…
Ukusebenzisa Imali Yokweshumi Ukusiza Abazali Asebekhulile
Ngakube kungaba liphutha ukusebenzisa ingxenye yokweshumi kwethu ukukhokhela isikhungo sabanakekela abadala?Sesibonile nebala isimanje sisigcina simatasa ukuzipha isineke esanele nabazali .Njengokuba nezingane zethu ziyofunda e varsity khona lapho sibhekene nanokunakekela umkhwe nomkhwekazi wami .Nicabanga senze njani?
Ukumisa Utakalani Ekushayeni
Ngingamisa kanjani undodakazi wami ona 2 weminyaka ukushaya umfowabo onezinyanga ezingu 10? Uyamkhahlela ,amshaye ,amlume ,amklabalasele amjikijele nangamathoyisi .Kwaqala ngesikhathi eqala ukukhasa.Loluhlobo lwesenzo lwenzeka nsukuzonke ,kaningi ngosuku.Sesenze okuningi ukumisa lokhu kuziphatha ,nokho okwamanje akukho okubukeka kusebenza ,ninazo izeluleko kumbe enikuphakamisayo?
Ukubhekana NeNkonkoni Engumzalwane Emndenini
Sithini kundodana wethu osese –varsity othi ungungqili unguMKhrestu ? Ukholwa ngukuthi uNkulunkulu wamtshela ukuthi akukho phutha ngobunkonkoni nokuthi utoliko lwebhayibheli lunezincaphephe.Okwedlulele ,ngukuthi lomqondo usewucobelele nomfowabo [onengeke kabi ngaye],futhi lomqondo wakhe ufuna ukuqhubeka ukuwutshala nakwabanye abancane .Kwezinye izikhathi ngidinwa ngiqhume ngize ngimemeze okomuntu ehayiza.Kwezinye izikhathi ngivese ngihlale phansi qede zehle izinyembezi.Siyamthanda…
Amakhosikazi Aholayo Enkonzweni Yekamero
Ngakube kunempilo yini ukuba omama bahole indlela ekwenzeni uthando emshadweni ?Mina nomnyeni wami siyaluthokozela kakhulu uthando lwethu nenkonzo nokho kunento eyodwa engihlale ngikhathazeke ngayo: Kunezikhathi lakhona ngilangazelela ukuzizwa ngisondele kowakwami,kodwa ngibe nongabazane ukuthi kuhle yini kimi ukuba ngiqale uhambo .Impela ngiye ngizitshele ukuthi okwendoda ukuqala uhambo.Kuthini ukucabanga kwenu?
Abazali Bavimba Ubudlelwano Bogogo Nezinganeni zabo
Sifuna ukuba sebudlelwaneni obuhle nabazukulu bethu ,kodwa kulesikhathi undodana nomakoti wakwami basidudulela eceleni ,okucaca ;abafuni sisondele kubona.Okugcina singenamaxhama okuxhumana nabazukulu.Ngisho nala khona bebavumela ,siba sincane kakhulu isikhathi esiba naso nabazukulu.Yiyiphi indlela enhle ukubhekana nalesisimo?
Ukuhlolela Inzalo Ngesikhathi Somethembiso
Ngakube kuhle yini ukucela intokazi engizoshada nayo ukuba ihlolelwe inzalo phambi kokuba sishade? Angiqondi umoya osukhona esikhathini sanamhlanje osungumkhuba wokuthanda ukungabi nabantwana-hle hle mina kade ngaqala ukulangazelela ukuba nabantwana ngisho ngingakahleli umshado .Ngiphinde ngikholwe ukuthi umshado ,inkonzo yekamero ,nezingane konke kuyi –package efanayo[ngikholwa ukuthi iminitry yenu iyakuvuma lokho].Esikhundleni sokukhetha ukungalethi…
Ukholo ,imisebenzi ,kanye nensindiso
Ngakube ngisindiswe ngokholo noma ngemisebenzi emihle ? NjengoMkhrestu omusha ,kwathi gqi uma ngizwa ukuthi insindiso ayimile ngemisebenzi ,kodwa kuphela esiphweni sikaNkulunkulu somusa.Kodwa manje omunye ungitshele ukuthi ukukholwa okungenamsebenzi kufile nokuthi uNkulunkulu uyathanda ukunaka izenzo zami ndlelanye anaka ngayo ukukholelwa kwami.Manje ngikhathazekile.Mhlampe angenzi okwanele ukuya ezulwini.Nicabangani? Ningangisiza ukuqonda lokhu okubukeka kuyisiphicwane?
Ukubhekana nogogo nomkhulu abatotosana kweqe
Ngingabamisa kanjani abazali bami ukutotosa kweqe izingane zami? Ugogo nomkhulu bapha izingane zami kwasani eziyidingayo ,ngisho nala mina engingavumi khona.Angifuni bazizwe ngibaqhelisa abazali bami ,kodwa kumele kube notho engilwenzayo .Akhona amacebo eninawo?
Obaba nomthelela abanawo kumadodakazi abo
Njengobaba ,yimaphi amaqhaza angukhiye okumele ngiwadlale empilweni yendodakazi yami? Yiziphi izingxenye empilweni yayo okumele ngigxile kuzo nokuthi yiziphi izinto engingazenza ukudala ubudlelwano obunempilo phakathi kwethu?
Umama onamathele uyesaba ukudedela ingane yakhe esises”khungweni semfundo ephakeme
Ningangisiza ukudedela undodana wami osephikelele ezifundweni zakhe e university? Ngimsabelela izinselelo azobhekana nazo eyedwa –izinselelo zokholo nokuziphatha kwakhe ,ngingasayikhulumi eyokuphila yedwa ngokokuqala empilweni yakhe.Sesibe ngumndeni onamathelene ,okwenza kube nzima kimi ukumbona ehamba.Kahle –hle bengiqwasha ebusuku uma ngicabanga ngalokhu.Ngingabhekana kanjani naloluguquko olusha?
Ocwile ophuzweni ufuna usizo
Ninalo usizo kumuntu osefuna ukukuyeka ngempela utshwala? Ngingalutholaphi usizo longoti uma ngiludinga? Ngikuhluphekele ukunqoba inkinga yami yophuzo ,kodwa ubunzima bendlela sebungikhombise ukuthi ngeke nginqobe lokhu kucwila ngokwami .Manje nonkosikazi wami usengethuse ngokuthi usecabanga ukuthatha izingane zami bangishiye ngedwa ,okwedlulele,ngisanda kuthola i-warning kumqashi wami ukuthi ngilova kakhulu emsebenzini.Ngenzenjani?