Ep. 126 The Enneagram for couples: understand yourself and your beloved

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In an intimate relationship, different viewpoints create stress and conflict. By illuminating each partner’s key motivational drive, the Enneagram provides clarity which – used mindfully – supports self-awareness and liberates one’s partner from unrealistic expectations. Transformation coach Renier Cronje explains how accepting and normalising each partner’s survival fears can strengthen a relationship and provide a gateway to love.
18 Jul 2023 English South Africa Self-Improvement · Relationships

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