Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ukukhetha ozoshada naye
Ngokuzika kwemishado ezweni, kwenza abasha bazibuze kusemqoka yini ukushada.
Isithembu nokuthandwa ngabaningi - indlela yokubuka yezwi
Kungani ngingamukeleki ukuba nomndeni ozisekelo zayo yizwi uma kuwukuthi ngithandana nabaniningi besifazane ? Amadoda anqala ezwini –oAbraham Jakobe,Davide noSolomon –babenamakhosikazi amaningi .Ngokubuka iministry yenu egxilile ezwini ,angiboni lutho olwenza nimelane nezinto ezinjengesithembu nezingodosi .Ngizibona nginguMkhrestu othanda ukuba nezingodosi .Ngithanda abesifazane abathe xaxa ngesibalo impela ,akukho sizathu esingenza singakwazi ukwakha isisekelo…
Ukholo ukungabaza kuqhathaniswa nokungakholwa
Ukuphi umehluko phakathi ‘kongakholwa ‘ kunye nomuntu onombuzo othembekile ngoNkulunkulu ? Ngiyakholelwa eBhayibhelini ,futhi ngiye ngitshele nabahlobo nomndeni ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyazenza izimangaliso ngisho ukuvusa abafileyo. Nokho,uma sezishuba izinto ,ngikuthola kunzima ukuthemba iNkosi.nakuba ngibatshela abanye ukuthi bangethembela emseni waKhe, nokho ngibhekana novalo nokwesaba uma kufika izimo ezingihaqayo ezinzima. Ngakube lokho kuchaza…
Amantombazane nabasefazane ekugqokweni kwamabhulukwe
Ngokomlandu amasiko abe nomthelela omkhulu kwindlela yokuphila nokukhetha emndenini, nokho kunemehluko phakathi kwesiko neqiniso lebhayibheli. Uma simisa izinkolelo zethu ngezibhalo, kusemqoka ukubukisisa okwakuqondwe ngqo yilawo mavesi.
Umshado nesenzo socansi emshadweni njengophawu lwakwamoya
Umshado nenkonzo ngakube yimifanekiso efanele ukuchaza ngobudlelwano bethu noNKULUNKULU ? Ngesikhathi ngifunda umbhalo obungomshado wobuKhrestu ngizithela enkulumweni ehlasimulayo .Umbhali uqale ngokuqhathanisa ubudlellwano boluntu nobeNKOSI kubantu .Bese aqhubeke athi kumele ‘sishade noNkulunkulu’ ,bese aze aphakamise ukuthi kulobubunye ,UKhrestu utshala ‘izimbewu zokomoya’ kithi ukuze ‘sizale okusha empilweni entsha’. Ngikuthole lokhu kuwulimi lwezocansi…
Ukuxoxa nomuntu omusha ngokuzibulala komngani wakhe kumbe amjwayele
Ngixoxe kanjani nomfana wami osemusha, mayelana nomngani wakhe osanda kuzibulala? Lowomfana bebengaphezu kokujwayelwana naye ,manje ngiyazi lesisenzo siwuphulile umoya womfana wami ngokujulile. Ningangisiza ukungicija ukubeka kahle lesihloko kuye?’
Ukuqonda Ukuzisika Kwalaba Asebancane
Ukuzilimaza kwentsha kuyinkinga enkulu futhi kudinga ukubukwa serious kakhulu. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi uzisike kangakanani, kumele kube noxwayiso olunqala ngesizathu eziyimbangela.
Intombazanyana Efuna Usizo Emva kokuhlukunyezwa Ngokocansi
Ngisanda nje kuba yisisulu sokudlwengulwa. Ngiludinga kakhulu usizo kodwa angazi ngizoluthola kuphi–yikuphi okumele ngikwenze? Angikaze ngixoxele abazali bami futhi akekho owaziyo. Nginamahloni ukuvuleka ngalokhu emndenini nakubangani, futhi ngesaba ukuthi sizobe ngesedlulele isimo uma ngiyobika emaphoyiseni.Khona manjalo, ngizizwa ngingcolile, nginecala, ngingelutho, ngixakekile ngesaba kakhulu kwakuba kukhona na umnyakazo engingawenza.
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Ingxenye yesibili)
Ohlelweni lwethu ezomndeni olwedlule saqala inkulumo ngokuthi ubhekana kanjani nokuqhelelana emshadweni futhi sabuka ukuthi: ukuqinisekisa ukuthi yiyona ndlela efanele ngalesosikhathi, ukuba nohlelo nokuqinisekisa uyazazisa izingane ngokokuhambisana neminyaka yazo. Sifuna namhlanje ukukhuluma ngokuthi uzinakekela kanjani izingane ngokwemizwa yenhliziyo yazo esikhathini sokuqhelelana kanjalo nokuthi zinyathelo zini okumele uzithathe nisaqhelelene.
UBhekana Kanjani Nokuqhelelana Emshadweni (Ingxenye yokuqala)
Baningi abashadile abaxakekile ebudlelwaneni babo, okugcina kubiza ukuthi ukuqhelelana noma isehlukaniso sibe yisiphetho, ukuqeda iminjunju. La ohlelweni ezomndeni sizokhuluma ngesihloko esinzima sokuthi kubhekwana kanjani nokuqhelelana emshadweni, lesihloko simahlandla mabili.
Ukuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese (Ingxenye yesibili)
Ohlelweni lwethu ezomndeni oluphambilini besithula isihloko sokuhuhwa ngubulili-bunye futhi sisiza umlaleli wethu ukuba aqonde ukuthi imizwa ayiqondile ukuveza ubuqobo bomuntu nokuthi nabo ubuqobo siqu ngokwamagama ananyekwa kubo ngabantu akumele amiswe kalula nje emphakathini jikelele.
Ukuhehwa ngubulili-bunye kunye nobuqobo bengasese (Ingxenye yokuqala)
Miningi imicabango, imizwa nemibuzo ejikeleza emcabangweni womuntu uma ezithola ehuhwa ngubulili bunye. Abantu masisha bagxumela ekukubizeni ngamagama, kodwa empeleni lithini iqiniso nesiqu salendaba.
Ukuhlukana koMzali neNgane okwesikhashana
Ngakube kube lula yini kimi ukushiya ingane yami nomzanyane kumbe ngiyishiye enkulisa amahora ? Ngisengumzali omusha ,kangikazi noma kunempilo yini ukuhlukanisa ingane yami nami kube yisikhashana .Kuthini ukubona kwenu kulokhu?
Ukuhlola Izifo Zocansi Kongathembekile Emshadweni
Imithelela yomakhwapheni namashende ishiya kumanhlembethwane. Imiphumela yezenzo ezinjalo insonsotha kude le, bese kuthi lo olinyaziwe emshadweni unezizathu ezanele ukuba manqika ukuya phambili ngalomshado.
Ukululama Enhliziyweni Emva Kwesimo Esibuhlungu
Ukululama emva kwisiga esibuhlungu akuyona into elula neze,kuthatha isikhathi nokuzimisela.
Ukuzilungiselela Ikhaya Eligengqezayo
Uthi bewazi ukuthi kulabo abaneminyaka eko 65 nengaphezulu, izehlukaniso kubo zenyukile kusuka ngo-1990, izizathu zencike kakhulu ekugungquzeni ngabodwa emakhaya. Abazali ngaphakathi ezinhlizyweni bakhetha ukuba ndawonye kuze kube izingane ziyozisebenzela emva kwalokho bese beqala babone ukuthi umshado wabo usengxakini bagcine bephuma kuwo.
Izizathu ukulubekela Imfundo Ephakeme
Kungani kumele ngiye e University ? Indlela mina engibuka ngayo ,amakolishi awabumbi isizukulwane esilandelayo ukuba sibe abadala abanokhiqhizo nobuholi,lokho okungasizi mfundi ukufinyelela ezimpokophelweni zakhe .Kungani uzicwilise ezikweletini ngenxa nje yokuthi kunomuntu olindele ube neziqu ? Kungani uchithe iminyaka yakho emide usebenzela ucwezu lwephepha nje ologcina lukubeka ezingeni lokuhola okufanayo nongenalo?…
Umkhwenyana ozibuza ngakube abambe iqhaza lokuba ngumama
Akusiyo into oyibona nsukuzasa ubaba enza umsebenzi kamama, elungisela izingane ukuya esikoleni, elungisa ukudla, ewasha izitsha. kodwa ndlela thizeni ngesinye sezigaba obaba abazithola bekuso.
Abazali abakhathazekile ngentombazane ekhonze imidlalo yabafana
Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje sizonqumunga isihloko esixukuzana ingqondo, nkashana sisa siza umndeni uqonde kangcono isimo sokuthanda izinto zabafana kwentombazana nokudlala sabulili obuhlukile.
Umkhwenyana olulama okikanetelweni lwe-Porn ,akasemashushu ngenkonzo
Imishado eminingi, ikhinyabezwe lukinatelo lwezithombe zobunqunu [porn] futhi eminingi yayo iphetha kwizahlukaniso. Izizathu zalokhu ukuthi kumanhlembethwane ukulapheka futhi bese lo oganene naye aphelelwe lithemba lokubuyiseka kobudlelwane ngendlela.