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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Izinsika zezibhalo zokuvikela ukuphila koluntu
Kukuphi lakhona ibhayibheli likhuluma ‘ngobungcwele bempilo yoluntu”? Ngiyezwa nje leligama selivelele, ngokuqhubeka ngilizwa, yila khona nencazo yalo ngingayitholi. Umzekelo omuhle, yila khona ngihlale ngizwa ebandleni, emisakazweni nezinhlangano ezilwela ukuphila zisebenzisa leligama. Nanxa kunjalo kodwa angiziboni sengiliqonda kahle nokuthi liqhamuke kanjani. Ikhona insika yebhayibheli engalomqondo?
Ukumbula ukuphinga kunkosikazi wendoda ebingazi ngomnyeni wayo
Iyiphi indlela engcono ukwembula uthando lwangasese emva kokuthi uwakwakho sewazihlanza kulolodaba kodwa inkinga kube ngukuthi umkhwenyana kumbe unkosikazi wendoda engumenzi akazi? Unkosikazi wami nenye indoda ebandleni babe sebudlelwaneni iminyaka engaphezu kwengu kwemine, ngize ngathola ezinyangeni ezintathu sekwenzeka. Unkosikazi sewabunqamula lobobudlelwano futhi sase siyokhonza kwelinye ibandla. Sisalungisa lezi londa ezibhibhayo, kodwa…
Ukulungisela ukukhishwa ejele kowakwakho
Ninazo iziluleko zowesifazane omkhwenyana wakhe usezophuma ejele?Umnyeni wami ubetoke iminyaka emithathu, usezobuya ngenyanga ezayo. Ngilangazelele ukubuya kwakhe, ngibe sebudlwaneni obumnandi isibili naye ,kodwa khona lapho futhi ngizizwa nginovalo. Angikwazi ngqo ngqo engingakulindela.Ningangisiza?
Ubuzali enganeni esikhulile kube kukhona ezisencane
ingaba ngumzali kanjani wengane endala kube kunezinye ezisencane ekhaya ezimbili? Zintathu sezizonke izingane zethu: umfana nentombazana esise- high school, nendodana esiphakathi ko-20. Lo omdala izinto azimhambelanga kahle ukuyobheka impilo osekumphoqe abuye ekhaya okwesikhashana.Siyabona usemdala futhi kumele simlawule ngokwehlukile ngokwemithetho, nokho sisabela umthelela engenzeka kulaba abancane. Zikhona iziluleko eningangipha zona?
Umsebenzi owufundele, ubizo, nomsebenzi unguMKhrestu
Ngingalwazi kanjani ubizo luka Nkulunkulu empilweni yami? Kuyiminyaka ngisebenza emsebenzini onzima nongahlabi mxhwele. Akukho ntokozo nakuneliseka ongilethele khona ngaphandle kokuthi usigcina sinesinkwa etafuleni siwumndeni. Ngokwami ukubuka yikho okuseqhulwini elikhulu lokho.Khona manjalo ngiye ngizwe abashumayeli bethi uNkulunkulu unobizo oluqondene nawe nokuthi lolobizo lubandakanya nomsebenzi wami. Ngokwami ukubuka leyonkulumo ayimile ngezwi. Nicabangani…
Izimo Zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo Kubantwana
Ikuphi engingakulindela enganeni ephazamiseke ngengqondo? Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha angakuguqula nokumele ngikwamukele okungenakuguquka? Sibhekene nalenkinga ebhungwini lethu, futhi asazi sibhekane kanjani nalesisimo. Ningasisiza?
Ozoba ngumkhwenyana useke waba socansini phambi komshado
Njengozoba ngumakoti ngingalinqoba kanjani isemumva lami lokuphoxeka engibhekene nako njengamanje kokuthi lensizwa engizoshada nayo ayiseyona insizwa nsi!?Angimbambele lutho.Kahle hle ngizizwa nginecala ukuba nalemizwa, ngoba phela ungumzalwane ozinikele eNkosini, omnene nonobubele, nendoda enkambo eqotho. Khona manjalo, ngiyehlulwa ukuzibamba ukuthi ukukhathazeka ukuthi lokhu kunganogcobho emshadweni wethu nokuthi sixhumana kanjani njengonkosikazi nendoda. Akulaleki…
Umsiza kanjani uwakwakho onengcindezi
Ngingamenza kanjani umnyeni wami afune usizo ngengcindezi ebonakala imhlasela? Nginesizathu sokukholwa ukuthi uthwele kanzima kulengxenye, Kodwa uyenqaba ukuvuma ukuthi lokhu kungaba liqiniso kumbe ukukuthatha-serious lokhu okungikhathazile ngaye. Angazi noma impakamo, ukwesaba, noma okunye okumi endleleni yakhe, kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi lentaba isiqalile ukugingqikela emshadweni nasemndenini wethu. Ngenzenjani?
Ukwakha ikhaya nokubuka kwebhayibheli ukusebenza
Ukuba sekhaya kungenakanjani ngokwebhayibheli eszihlokweni zokusebenza nokufuzula? Ngihlale ngikuthokozele ukuba sekhaya njengonkosikazi nomama ekhaya. Ngabe sengizwa izinkulumo eziningi ngeqhaza lokusebenza okuwumkhiqhizo ngokwecebo likaNkulunkulu ngoluntu.Kusuka lapho sengibe manqika.Ngisebenzisa isikhathi sami ngilungisa ukudla ,ngisulana namakhala avuzayo odado, ngisulana nekhishi. Ngokwami ukubona akukho nto engiyilethayo ngokomnotho, ngakho angazi noma lokusebenza kwami kunaqhaza lini…
Ungqubuzano Nabazali Ngamalungiselelo Omshado
Singabhekana kanjani nokungaba ngamathuba okungavumelani aqhumayo kubazali bami ngomshado wethu ozayo?Bagcizelele ukumelana kokuba khona kwamawayini nokudansa kwi -reception.Mina nozoba ngumkhwenyana wami sizimele ngokwezimali futhi sikulungele ukuzikhokhela thina izindleko zonke zomshado. Nokho lokho kungelungise lenkinga, njengoba uMawami esekucacisile ukuthi ngeke beze bona emshadweni wethu uma kuneziphuzo ezihlohlozayo nemidanso.Eqinisweni lezozinto azikho mqoka…
Umkhuba wokuba izingane zihlale zicabanga sakukhathazeka
Ngakube umkhuba oqhubekayo wokuhlala ingane ikhathazekile ngengqondo, ungaba nobungozi ekuhambeni kwesikhathi? Ingane yami inalowomkhuba, sengenze okuningi ukuqeda lokho kodwa lutho ngehlulekile .Kuyangisanganisa lokhu. Yikuphi okumele ngikwenze?
Umndeni oxubile ogcina ungophumelelayo
Njengoba ngishada isibili, ngiwumzali wezingane ezizalwa nezingazalwa yimi,yikuphi engingakwenza ukuba isimo sokungena emndenini oxubile sibe ngesenzeka ngesihle,ezinganeni zami, ezomkami, nawo wonke umuntu othintekayo kulendaba?
Ukuhlobonga nomfowabo kamkhwenyana wakho
Ngimtshele yini umnyeni wami ngokushelela engaba nakho ngagcina ngiya enkonzweni yekamero nomfowabo phambilini? Kunonyaka kwenzeka lokhu ,esikhathini engangibuthaka ngaso. Sobabili naye sabona ku-wrong esakwenza, asabe sisaphinda ukukwenza lokho. Imindeni yethu iyabonana futhi isondelene. Akekho kithi osetshele uwakwakhe. Sibatshele?
Ingane Esikhulile Esekhaya Eshaya Inkambiso Yabazali
Luhloboluni lwenkambiso yomthetho okumele ulushayele ingane esindala ehlala kwakho ungumzali? Undodakazi wethu oneminyaka ewu-29 uhlala muzi munye nathi.Uyazi ukuthi simiphi ngomshado, njengoba sikholwa yiyona ndlela kuphela yokuya enkonzweni, kodwa inkinga usenyonyobisa isoka lakhe lilale endlini yakhe layikhaya. Ngiyazi ngingemphoqe ukuguqula ingqondo, futhi angifuni ukulimaza ubudlelwane bami naye .Kodwa lokhu kuyasikhathaza…
Kunini La Kungamele Uthobe Kumnyeni Wakho
Kuhloniphekile yini ukuba owesifazane abuze izahlulelo zomkhwenyana wakhe kumbe aphikisane nezinqumo zakhe lakhona ekholelwa ukuthi zi –wrong? Uma kunjalo ,lokho kungena kanjani KwabaseFesu 5: 22, lakhona uPawuli ethi , “Bafazi ,thobelani amadoda enu ,ngokungathi kuseNkosini?” Zikhona izibonelo zamakhosikazi ebhayibhelini ama kulokho?
Izidingo Zengane Engahluphi Ezikhethekile
Ingane ephakathi nje nendawo nelaleyo ihambisane nawe, ithelelwa kanjani ngeyakwabo engezwa sanhlobo? Undodakazi wami omdala uyisibonelo sengane-emnandi, ethokozile nevumelana nawe. Umfowabo yena uhluke ngamalengiso. Kunokwenzeka nginithinte ngaye kwesinye isikhathi; kholwani yimi kuningi engingakusho! kodwa okwamanje, ngehlulwa ukuzibamba ngokomthelela omubi awufaka kudadewabo. Yikuphi engidinga ukukwazi ngengane ezithulelayo engaphikisani nomzali?
Uphindaphindo Lohlubuko KuMKhrestu uzibuza kaze selweqile yini kwiNtethelelo kaNkulunkulu
Kukangaki ukuba uNkulunkulu angithethelele angibuyisele kuye futhi? NginguMkhrestu, kodwa uhambo lwami neNkosi lungugqamincishi. Kukaningi ngiyidela iNkosi, okuthi ngingahuhluzeka phansi ngobuso bese ngibona iphutha lesinqumo sami. Kuyinhlalayenza lokhu empilweni yami. Ekuqaleni angicabanganga kabanzi ngakho, kodwa manje sekuyangikhathaza: ngakube sengiseqile isikali sentethelelo ekalelwe mina? Ngabe sengimqede ukubekezela uNkulunkulu? Ngakube yinto le okumele…
Ukuhlabela Phambili Emumva Kwesahlukaniso
Ngingabhekana kanjani nobuhlungu be divosi ngicabe indlela entsha yezingane zami name siqu? Ngiyavuma ukuthi ngakhetha kabi. Esibi kunazo zonke ukuthi ngaqhela emndenini wami ngesikhathi kushuba emshadweni wami sengehlulwa ukubhekana nakho.Ngibona manje ukuthi ukuqhela kwami akulethanga kimi kuphela ubuhlungu, kodwa nasezinganeni zami. Osekwenzekile kwenzekile, futhi akukho osekungaguqula ubuhlungu engabudala.Ngizizwa nginecala elikhulu!…
Ukukinatelwa zidakamizwa Ukukhetha uwakwakho othembekile
Njengomuntu osohambweni lokusinda kwi addiction ,ngingamthola kanjani ozohamba nami kumagxathi anzima okuqala ohambweni lokulapheka? Ninazo iziluleko ekukhetheni umsizi othembekile nokuthi lobobudlelwane bubukeke kanjani ? Ngothokoza kakhulu kweningakuphakamisa ngalesimo.
Ubudlelwane BomKhrestu Nohulumeni OngenabuNkulunkulu
Kungani kumele ukuba ‘ngithobele’ uhulumeni engikholwa uhamba lugugube? Ngiyalithanda izwe lakithi futhi ngithanda ukuzibandakanya nombusazwe wezwe wakithi, kodwa ngiyadideka okushiwo yibhayibheli ngalesihloko.Kodwa kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi uPhawuli atshele aMaKhrestu ukuba athobele [Kwabase Roma 13 : 1-7] nxashana kusicacele kahle ukuthi ohulumeni bomhlaba bonakele abanabulungiswa? UmKhrestu enze njani uma ebona ukuthi uhulumeni…