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Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Inkonzo yekamero eqophelweni eliphezulu layo
Ngakube ucansi emshadweni luyanelisa ngempela? Ngisemshadweni onzima, isilonda esikhona phakathi kukankosikazi wami name- wudaba lwenkonzo. Ngizizwa ngincintshiwe. Kwesinye iskhathi ngize ngibe nezilingo zokufisa izidingo zami zigcwaliseke ngaphandle. Ngifunde umbhalo othi abantu abasemshadweni yibo abaneliseke kakhulu ngenkonzo yekamero emhlabeni –akwenzeki nakoyedwa ukweneliseka kothandana nabantu abaningi. Ngithola kunzima kimi ukukholwa yilokho! Angifuni…
Ukulungisa isimo mqondo esibizwa nge-Obsessive Compulssive Disorders
muphi umehluko phakathi kwe OCD ne OCPD ? Ngididwa yilamagama, okwenza kube nzima ukuthola usizo lokusiza uwakwami, osesimweni [ngokubona kwami] okhombisa ukuba sehabeni ukwenza izinto ngengqondo yakhe.Ningangipha umehluko?
Ukubhekana nobunzima bokuhuhwa ngobulili bunye
Ikhona indlela enginganqoba ngayo umzabalazo wami weminyaka ngokuhuhekela ebulilini bunye nobami? Sengizamile ukulwa,kodwa kubukeka kwehlulekeka ngigcina ngenze ngokuzenzakaleka ngokwalemizwa. Ngenzenjani?
Ukulungisa isimo mqondo esibizwa nge-Obsessive Compulssive Disorders
imuphi umehluko phakathi kwe OCD ne OCPD ? Ngididwa yilamagama ,okwenza kube nzima ukuthola usizo lokusiza uwakwami , osesimweni [ngokubona kwami] okhombisa ukuba sehabeni ukwenza izinto ngengqondo yakhe.Ningangipha umehluko?
Ukukhuluma Nezingane Ngezimo Ezihlasimulisayo
Njengomzali ngingabhekana kanjani nengane yami ,ngezikhathi la khona kunobududu bobuqhuqhu bezibhamu,izimbubhane zemvelo, nezinye izimo ezihlasimulisayo ezingokuthatheka kwempilo ?Ngabe kumele ngenze okuseqophelweni ukubasitha kulololwazi-okuyinto engelula neze ngokwezindaba ezingena zilekanyana kwezokusakaza kulezinsuku? Kumbe ngizame ukukhulama nabo ngakho ?
Umphostoli Phawuli ngomshado nokuba wedwa
Kanti ibhayibheli alibuki yini umshado njengeqophelo eliphezulu lesibili ? Njengosemdala engashadile,angizwa neze kahle uma ngibona amakholwa egcizelela kangaka ubumqoka bomshado.Utadisho lwami lomlando lungiholela ekukholweni ukuthi ukuba wedwa kwakuvelele phambilini kunamanje.Izingcindezelo zokubuka kwesiko lamanje lisivala amehlo ukugqqama kwesitatimende sikaPhawuli : “Ngifisa sengathi bonke abantu benganjengami” [ 1KwabaseKhorinte 7: 7] .Ngikholwa ngumunxa…
Ukusebenzisa amaphilisi okuhlela inzalo emshadweni
Uthini umbono wenu ngokusebenzisa amaphilisi okuhlela ? Sisanda kushada sizama ukucabangisisa ngendlela eseqophelweni eliphezulu ukuthi siwabuke kanjani,kodwa sithola umyalezo ohlukene kubahlobo bethu,amalunga omndeni ,nodokotela.Omunye umzalwane esimaziyo ukholwa ukuthi naluhlobo luni lokuhlela umndeni lumelene necebo likaNkulunkulu. Asazi sicabange kuphi.
Umama akabazwile kahle abangani womkhwenyana wakhe
Yikuphi engingakwenza ngokungabi kwami nkamu nkamu ngabangane bomkhwenyana wami? Sithokozile futhi sisebudlelwaneni obuhle kakhulu,ngaphandle kwento eyodwa : angizwani nabangane bakhe.Ikhona indlela yokusombulula lenkinga? Isiholela ekuphikisaneni nongqubuzano
Isehlukaniso nofa lwaso ezinganeni
Isehlukaniso wuhambo olungelula neze ukuluhamba,ikakhulukazi uma kubandakanyeka nezingane, ungalindela isikhisi esidephile impela.Izingane zithenteka kabi ngokuhlukanisa kwabazali bazo, uMama noBaba kumele bazi bazobhekana kanjani ngokwesaba nokudideka kwezingane zabo.
Ukwehlisa amava engcindezi emndenini wakho
Ingcindezi iyinkinga yezempilo ethinta umphefumulo kumuntu ngokwamazinga ehlukene, kodwa iphinde ithinte amalunga omndeni ngokwezinga eliphathekayo. Sizothatha ithuba sibuke izindlela ongehlisa ngazo ingcindezi kabathandiweyo bakho.
Obaba bafundisa kanjani amadodakazi abo isizotha
Kuningi okungashiwo ngeqhaza elikhulu ubaba angalidlala empilweni yendodakazi yakhe, ikakhulukazi ekuzethembeni kwayo. Ubaba ubumba intombazana ngendlela ezibuka ngayo emphakathini, ngokunjalo unomthelela omkhulu ukuthi izethembe.
Ukusiza oyisisulu sobhongoza kwezokuxhumana
Siyavama ukubuzwa ngabazali, ukuthi babhekane kanjani nengane esibe yisisulu sobhongoza nobhongoza kwezokuxhumana. Ziningi izeluleko zemibhalo esinazo kulabobazali ezibanika inkombandlela kwi-website yethu ethi: www.safamily.co.za. Kodwa namhlanje sifuna ukukhuluma nabo qobo abasha ababhongozwa wobhongoza kwezokuxhumana. Sizwa kaningi ngabasha abexakekile ukuphila impilo ejwayelekile neqhubekayo, ngenxa yokwesatshiswa obhongoza basesikoleni kumbe labo abaxhumene nabo kuma…
Ingane yesaba uSathane
Izingane zifunda ngoSathane ebhayibhelini bese zizwe nangezindaba ezifundiswa kuSontoskole, bese kokunye zibe netwetwe qobo ngalesisitha esingabonakali. Abazali bengenza okuningi ukwehlisa lokho kwesaba ngokuthi basho uthini uNkulunkulu ebhayibhelini.
Inkambiso yokuziphatha kwengane esikhulile egunyeni labazali
Ngakube ingane esikhulile iqhubeke ukulalela ubaba nomama? Kunini lakhona iqhaza lobuzali liguquka? Kuyimibuzo evamile le uma ingane isifika eminyakeni yokuzimela ,nokho lithini iBhayibheli ngalokhu?
Ukuhuheka kumngani wowakwakho
Njengoluntu sibuthaka,futhi inhliziyo nezingqondo zethu zingasiduza kalula uma singaqapheli ukuba zihlale zibekwe eNkosini .NjengaMakhrestu sitakulwe ebugqilini besono sabuyisana noNkulunkulu ,kodwa lokho akuchazi ukuthi imicabango yesono ayithi shwi emiqondweni yethu. Kusibiza ukuba sense izinqumo ezinqala usuku nosuku sithabathe iziphambano zethu simlandele uJesu. Emshadweni simelwe ukuqapha izinhliziyo zethu kwizintshisekelo zesono ezingamelana nobudlelwano…
Umkhwenyana ongathembekile ufuna ukuba sothandweni nomunye wesifazane
Uma sekuziwa kwezokungethembeki emshadweni ,akumele kube nesisihla nebala.Akumele oganene naye athalalise ekubhanqweni, ngoba ubuqu bomshado buwubunye obungcwele phakathi kwendoda nonkosikazi, futhi lesifungo akumele neze sibukelwe phansi.
Umfana ona-3 udlala ngokugqoka izingubo nosisi bakhe
Uma umfana omncane ekhetha ukudlala ngezinto zamantombazane,kumbe adlale nawo ,ngakube lokhu kuluphawu lokuthi udidwa ngubulili bakhe?
Ukubuka ngokwebhayibheli-Ubumqoka benkonzo yekamero emshadweni
Umbuzo ovelele kwabasemshadweni, imvamisa abesifazane, okunokwenzeka basuke bethwele kanzimanyana emshadweni yabo ,ngothi: ‘Kungani inkozo yasekamerweni isemqoka?’ Lapho kuvamisa khona ugqozi lwenkonzo, kumbe umehluko omkhulu kufuqufuqu kwabaganene, lokho kusuke sekuyinkomba yokushaya amanzi kulobudlelwano, futhi abashadile abazithola bekulolutaku kungakuhle bafune usizo, phambi kokuba babishe.
Ukupotshozela amalunga omndeni ngokudideka emshadweni wakho
EMshadweni yonke kuye kube nongqubuzano nokudideka phakathi kukababa nomama, futhi kwesinye isikhathi umbono ovela eceleni kungayiwo owudingayo ukubuyela endleleni. Nokho kumele umuntu aqaphele ukuthi izeluleko ziqhamuka kuphi, ngoba ngisho amalunga omndeni asengaba yisithiyo uma efakwe ngenhloko nesiphanga.
Ukulumbanisa Ukuhlupheka KoMkrestu nevesi Konke kusebenzelana kube ngokuhle
Ngezikhathi lakhona impilo ikujikela, futhi ubhekene nokuhlupheka nokunsonsotha kwenhliziyo, kunzima ukuzwa lamagama: ‘UNkulunkulu usebenza konke kube ngokuhle’ ,ngoba izinto zingebukeke zizinhle kuwe .Ukubhekana nezivivinyo nokuhlushwa akulula neze ,nokho khona lapho ibhayibheli lisitshela ukuthi sizobhekana nobunzima empilweni.Sizobuka eduze okushiwo yibhayibheli ngokuhlupheka koMkhrestu.