Ezomndeni
Uhlelo oluyimizuzu eyisihlanu lapho sikulethela khona izeluleko ezisebenzisekayo ngabakwa - Focus on the Family
Ingane esaba izinambuzane nokusamabhungane
Umphefumulo womuntu yiwo oyingqondo yomuntu osisiza ukuntweza empilweni .Umqondo womuntu unamandla ngendlela yokuthi angakwazi ngisho ukuzitshela ngezinto ezingekho aze azikholwe. Sesikushilo lokho ,uma ingane ibhekana nento esabisayo ,emehlweni ayo, ingavumela umqondo wayo onamandla ukwakha zonke izithombe lezi nokwesaba,ngenxa futhi yokuthi basebancane kabayikubona ukuthi into leyo isengqondweni yabo nje. Ukuba ngumzali…
Ubungani bobulili obuhlukene emshadweni
Sewake waba nezinsolo ngobungani uwakwakho anabo ngomunye wobulili? lokhu akuvamisile, nokho ukuze umshado uhlale uphilile futhi uvikelekile, ama-couple adinga ukuqonda ubumqoka bemingcele emshadweni ,bese wonke umuntu ngamunye azizwe ephephile ngokungenakwesaba ubungani bowakwakhe.
Ingane esencane eseyadlula ngokweba
Umfana wethu oneminyaka emine singammisa kanjani ukweba? Kubukeka yonke indawo esiya kuyo, isenkonzweni, esitolo, elibrary ,nasemakhaya abangani – uphuma esephethe into okungesiyo eyakhe .Nginomuzwa othi uphethwe ukunganaki, kokuvese afake utho ephaketheni bese eyakhohlwa. Mina nomkhwenyana wami sesikhulume naye kaningana ukuthi kungani kukubi lokhu kuziphatha. Simtshelile ukuthi lithini ibhayibheli ngokweba. Sesike…
Ukutewuzela ezinganeni
Ninawo amasu ukusiza ongena ebubhungwini ukuba angabi yisitetelegu ? Uyazifela ukushobozela kwasani futhi uphatheka kabi uma simenqabela akaphumuze oncamngce.Uba nengcindezi emva kwezinsuku uma edle ukudla okumfanele ngokwezempilo. Singasibuyisa kanjani isimo la kuye
Wenza isikhathi nabangani bakhe ubaba nomama wenza esabakhe
Nicabanga kuwumqondo omuhle kobaba nomama ukuba nezinto abavama ukuzenza nabangani babo bobulili bunye ngaphandle komunye? Umkhwenyana wami uzizwela isidingo esinqala ukuba ndawonye njalo ngenyanga ,kodwa mina ngixolela ukusebenzisa isikhathi sami esiningi naye .Nami ngiyazikhipha izikhashanyana nabangani bami besibhuda ,kimi ngiye ngibone kwenele .Kuthini ukucabanga kwenu
Umkhwenyana ukhathazekile ngengcindezi ngesikhathi u-makoti ezithwele
Kukhona engingakwenza ukusiza unkosikazi wami ozithwele ekubhekaneni nomoya oguquguqukayo kuye? Usengasekugcineni kwezinyanga zakhe, kodwa usebukeka enengcindezi. Osekuba yisiphazamiso ebudlelwaneni bethu. Kukaningi ngizwa ngengcindezi eba kumama emva nje kokuteta, manje ngakube kujwayelekile yini ukuba umama avese acindezeleke engakateti?
Ingane esikhulile yenze izinqumo ezingezinhle
Yikuphi esingakwenza ukukhuthaza undodana wethu omdala ukuba akhule manje? Wenze izinqumo ezibi ngokwempilo, umsebenzi, indawo yokuphila, nangabangani. Emva kokumkhulisa ngobuKHRESTU siphoxekile kakhulu. Khona manjalo asikwazi ukuzixolela ngomuzwa wecala wokuthi sehluleka kuphi. Kukhona esingakwenza ukubuyela emumva, ngaphandle kokugxoba imingcele efanele?
Ukukhuthaza Ingxoxo Niwumndeni
Kusemqoka kanganani ukuhlale kuhlale umndeni ube nethuba lokuxoxa? Emshadweni wethu ukuxoxa sekube yingwadla eside isikhathi, kodwa mumva nje sengiqaphele ukuthi lenkinga isithungele nasezinganeni: kubukeka akasekho layikhaya onesikhathi sokuxoxa nomunye. Angazi lokhu kwenzeke kanjani, futhi ngiyamangala ngokukushoyo ngempilo yomndeni kwezobudlelwane. Kodwa ngingenze njani ukucima lomhlolo?
Odivose enengane, ufuna ukubuyisa umshado
Ngingaqhubeka nomcabango wokubuyela emshadweni wami ngenxa yengane? Sobabili singaMakhrestu, ngeshwa sigcine nje sesihlukanisa. Emasontweni ambalwa edlule ngizizwa nginomzwangedwa ngalokhukwehlukwana esimweni senganyana yethu. Nicabanga ngenze kuphi ?
Inkambiso Yokusebenzisa i-Cell phone ezinganeni
‘izingane zingavunyelwa ukuba nama smart phone nokunye okuwubuchofo? Omdala useyashayela, ngakho besemgwaqeni. Uwakwami yena ucabanga bayawadinga amaphone ukuze bakwazi ukuxhumana nathi. Nikubona kuwumqondo omuhle lokho?’
Osekuse emehlweni kuye ngophuzo ufuna ubudlelwane bubuye nabantabakhe
Umndeni osuhlupheke wukuqhotshozelwa yimithelela yokucwila kwelunga ezinkambeni, izidakamizwa, ucansi noma yiluphi olunye uhlobo olunethonya lokungashiyeki, imvamisa ugcina ukuthwala kanzima kwikusasa lawo uma kungesikho kwempiloyonke. SingaMaKhrestu ,siyakholwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu angakwelapha bonke ubuthakathaka bethu nobudlelwane obuphukile,ngokuba ungumbuyiseli wemiphefumulo yethu [Ihubo 23].
Izinkinga zobudlelwano ekubeni ngumzali wengane ezalwa nguwakwakho
Imindeni exubile, iyimndeni esiminingi kulezinsuku. ukuhlangana kwemindeni emibili izoba mndenimunye, ngokwemvelo inezinselelo ezingadinga ukunqotshwa. Kungancika emlandwini wobudlelwane, isibalo somndeni ozongena, neminyaka, nezinga lezingane, ezibandakanyekayo, lomndeni oxubile ungaba ngongathatha izindlela ezehlukene. Kuloluhlelo Ezomndeni namhlanje, sizobuka isimo lakhona indodakazi noyise ongayizali [stepfather] benenkinga ngoxhumano lwabo.
Umzali owahlukanisa unovalo ngengane yakhe esikhulile engawuzwa kahle umshado
Umshado uyisakhiwo esingcwele esadalwa nguNkulunkulu, futhi kunokuningi okuwusizo nokuhle empilweni ekuzinikeleni emshadweni. Ngeshwa ngokunyuka kwezahlukaniso kuleminyaka ,umshado usumanembenembe kwabaningi. Kuyavama ukuba ingane evela kubazali abahlukanisa, ukuba ingabi nkamunkumu ngomshado.
Umfana ozothile nozwelayo
Kukhona yini okungamele kukukhathaze uma umfana ekhombisa ukuthanda ezobuciko kunezemidlalo, kumbe izinto ezimenza azizolele kunalezo ezimenza abe semdlandleni? Ukujwayeleka kwezimo zempilo kwenze ukuba sigcina sesibuka ngeso okungesilo kwelesakheko sengane. Sizosibhunga namuhla lesihloko ngokwezwi.
Ukuthola intando kaNkulunkulu
Kuyenzeka sizibuze ukuthi yikuphi uNkulunkulu afuna ukukwenza ngempilo yethu. Siyazi ufuna simphilele ,kodwa mase kuziwa kwimininingwane kwenza kube nzima nokuthatha igxathi elicacile.Namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizobuka kabanzi lesihloko, hlala ungasuki.
Umkhwenyana ojeqeza abanye besifazane
Uma unkosikazi enomuzwa wokuthi amehlo omkhwenyana wakhe ade ethi qala uma kuke kwathi shwi owesifazane othandekayo emehlweni akhe, enze njani lonkosikazi? Azithulele futhi athandaze, kungaphindi, kumbe alubeke loludaba kuye phambi kokuba ludlange? Sithanda ukuvuna lowomqondo wesibili bese siletha imininingwane ethe xaxa, khona la ohlelweni Ezomndeni.
Ukubuka ukukipita nezimo zakho nomshado
Sekuvamile ukuba abantu bahlale ndawonye phambi komshado ,hle hle izinkomba ezweni lakithi zikhomba bebancane abakhetha ukushada.Iso lokubuka umshado selingxenye ,yiziphi izinkuthazo zomshado nokuzuzwa kuwo ,nokuthi kungani ababili kumele bawulangazelele? Sizokhuluma kabanzi ngalokho la ohlelweni Ezomndeni .
Unkosikazi wami uyahlukumezana ngokwenyama
Sivamise ukuzithola sikhuluma ngokuhlukunyuzwa la khona umama usuke eyisisulu, kodwa namuhla ohlelweni Ezomndeni sizonceda ubaba obhekene nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba ngunkosikazi wakhe, bese siletha izinyathelo ezisithinta sonke kungakhathalekile ukuthi uhloboni luni lohlukumezo nokuthi ngubani umenzi walo.
Ukuhushula nezempilo zikaMama
Izibalo zokuhushula izisu okwenzeka ezweni lakithi zisezingeni eliphezulu elethusayo futhi kwazona ezibhaliwe azibandakanyi lezo zokuhushula okungagunyaziwe nguhulumeni okwenzeka emahhontshi.Kumbalwa kakhulu lakhona okusuke kuwuhlobo lokuba umama akhethe phakathi kwezempilo zakhe nempilo yomntwana. Zizwele khona la.
Uku ‘adopter’ ingane ehlukumezekile
Uku–adopter yinto enhle kakhulu eseduze nenhliziyo kaNkulunkulu. Wonke umzalwane wafakwa emndenini wakhe, njengokusho kwezwi kwabaseRoma 8,ukuthi si-adopthiwe saba ngamadodana namadodakazi. Uma umndeni ucabanga uku-adopter, kuningi okufikayo, amalungiselelo nokuhlela okuningi okudinga ukwenziwa kuqala. Kwenziwa njani uma kuwukuthi umntwana ozofakwa emndenini useke wabhekana nokuhlukumezeka phambilini? Lezozingane zidinga ngempela ikhaya elifudumele nelinothando. Zizwele…