Kaya 959 Point of View with Phemelo Motene

Finding the balance between self-development and sustaining a marriage with a partner who refuses to work on themselves.

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Do you have a spouse or partner who refuses to develop themselves, won’t listen to your advice, or continues to make poor decisions? As you know, it can be an incredibly frustrating – and sometimes worrisome – experience.

When this happens, we are often faced with the difficult decision on whether to leave or just go of our desire for control and learn to accept our partner as she or he is. Counselling psychologist, Nthabiseng Ramothwala joins us for this conversation.
4 May 2022 2PM English South Africa Education · Careers

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