The three sides to every story: Why your viewpoint is always magnificent

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What does the magnificent view of Table Mountain teach us about disagreements?
In this introspective episode, inspired by a memory from Blouberg Beach, our host reflects on how our physical vantage point shapes our view - and why that applies perfectly to every conflict we have.
The lesson is clear: every person sees their own opinion as magnificent and absolutely true, simply because it’s filtered through years of unique experience.
Discover why recognising this truth is the only way to move past a fiery debate. The host explores the concept of the three sides to every story (yours, mine, and the actual story) and the importance of understanding where the other person is standing before you engage.
3 Dec 2025 11PM English South Africa Society & Culture · Society & Culture

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