Mistakes: Where the Learning Happens

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Lauren Edmunds, founder of a school for children with learning delays, explains that mistakes are exactly where learning occurs. She warns that common phrases like "you can do better" can accidentally shame children, leading them to avoid challenges and stick to easy tasks just to get praise.

To foster a "learning brain," Lauren suggests praising the action and the effort rather than the result. This approach helps children stay curious and develop the intrinsic motivation to strive for themselves. If a child continues to struggle despite this support, she recommends an assessment to see if a learning delay is causing a misunderstanding.
16 Feb English South Africa Education · Self-Improvement

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