Home is whre the heart aches

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You know that feeling. It hits you out of nowhere. Maybe it's a Sunday afternoon, and somewhere in the back of your mind, you can smell the smoke of a braai you're not at. Or you're standing in a foreign supermarket, staring at shelves that don't have biltong, and suddenly your chest feels... heavy. If that sounds familiar, you are not alone. Not even close.
A new global study has just confirmed what so many South Africans living abroad already know in their bones: we are the second most homesick nation on the planet. Nearly every single South African living overseas, a staggering 96%, says they feel the pull of home.
And it's not just the big things. Yes, we miss our families. We miss our friends. But we also miss the sound of our own language. We miss the sunshine. We miss understanding how things work, the way they just work back home. We even miss sleeping in our own beds.
The study found that homesickness hits hardest during the moments that matter most. A birthday you couldn't get back for. A tough week when you needed your mum. A holiday where a video call had to do, but it didn't, not really.
What keeps South Africans going? Calling home. Hearing a familiar voice. Finding a restaurant that does a proper boerewors roll. Watching Generations or a sport replay just to feel something recognisable again.
28 Apr English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

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